Let Him Take Her???? mariher: Many of you guys already know my situation with my X and how pissed off I am with him. Well, I need some advice and I need it badly!!!!
Last night he calls me. I didn't answer the phone but he left me a voicemail. I listened to it. He is planning on flying down to Arkansas cause he has to renew his license (his b-day is on Saturday and it's about to expire). So he wanted to know if he could take our daughter with him. I'm thinking to myself "yeah right, I don't think so!" Anyway, I call him back and I asked him how long he was planning on going for. He said he's leaving Saturday and coming back Tuesday evening. I told him I wasn't too sure about it because I don't have much trust in him right now. He didn't get upset with me but he DID state that he doesn't think it's fair that J spends so much time with me and my family and he wants her to spend time with his family too. On that point, he is right, I know that, but how do I get past the trust issue? I want to put my selfishness aside and do what's best for my daughter, but what if he leaves and decides to not come back or he disappears .
Re: Let Him Take Her???? thejoker: let us know if he disappears.. we will hunt him down and kill him..
I'm kidding.. but seriously.. yeah Ojar coast to coast...
well shit actually we are worldwide ain't we?
ok back to reality... is he good with your child? has he ever given you pause to think he really would not return?
Re: Let Him Take Her???? drowned: Hmm...tuff one? Trust is most important and yet fairness to your child is too. I doubt he would seriously disappear mariher, but yet you know him better than anyone :-\
Do what is best for everyone involved because in fact, you do have many people involved with your decision.
Good luck!
drowned
Re: Let Him Take Her???? Plucky: Is there a way to make sure you are in contact with his family there BEFORE he leaves? Kind of create a safety net?
Re: Let Him Take Her???? jannette Garcia: If you have a bad feeling about it. Dont let her go. Or like Plucky said, is there anyway to contact his family?? Does his family like you?? Because I know my BF family dont like me and I would not in a million years let my daughter go with him to see them. They're more than welcome to visit, even though I hate them and they've been rude. But I would not let her go under any circumstances. I am totally convinced they would try to take her. They're just bad people. So go with y our gut.
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