Re: Let Him Take Her???? mariher: I love his family as though they were my own family too. I trust THEM, it's him I don't trust. I know that my daughter is in good hands with them. And they love her very much. What I'm afraid of is that my X is going to go temporarily insane over there and decide not to come back. I'll have to put into effect an Amber alert and call the Arkansas police, take a flight out there to go get her, etc...
Then again, he has always had our daughter's best interest at heart and he takes very good care of her when she's with him. I'll think about it and just make sure to get in contact with his family like u said Plucky.
I have to make my decision by tonight so I'll have to do some brainstorming for the next couple of hours.
Re: Let Him Take Her???? mariher: I decided to let him take our daughter for the weekend down to his parent's house. I spoke with his sister and she was practically begging me to let him bring her. The way I'm TRYING to look at this is that I have to establish some type of middle ground and try giving him the benefit of the doubt. This will be his one chance to prove himself, I guess. I told him that if even thinks about doing something he's not supposed to i'm gonna have his ass beaten up and THEN I'm putting him in jail and he'll never see her again. I hope I'm doing the right thing..... My guts telling me everything will be okay, but you never know....
