Re:Lost and Confused Riding_the_Coaster: Well just to update everything. My husband has finally realized that things are over!! Which I am glad. My friend and I did kind of jump pretty quick into a relationship, but it's funny that i'm not scared at all about it. I swore that I would never trust anyone again but its funny I trust him completly. You know when you just know about something, well that how this is. We just know that this is right. I have never felt this happy in my life not even with my husband. We both have just said that this feels right. And we both agreed that if it doesn't work out at least we can say we finally tried. I know my husband is still hurt but we had the worst relationship ever possible. We argued like brother and sister not husband and wife. I did everything possible to save my marriage but you have to know when enough is enough and this just was not healthy for us or our children.
Re:Lost and Confused ChrisJane: good for you...you did all you could to save the marriage. you gave him a chance more then he deserved.
it is a GREAT feeling to find someone that keeps that smile on your face isn't it.....and to feel you can trust him with your heart is an even bigger plus....
cheers to your new future ;D
Re:Lost and Confused Safetykc: Ugh...
Trying to be happy for you, but you used some of the same verbage and are in a similar thing to what happened with my X. As soon as we split she immediately found the "love" of her life...a guy who told her they had been preparing the last 10 years to meet each other. I was hurt as your STBX was and she threw herself into the new relationship so quickly... :P nuff said...
Ah well, different situations, different people.
Good luck and I hope it turns out ok.
Take care,
Safety
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