Re:Noooo Too Late :: Act II Lumpy: Hey fisherman,
Gotta say your approach and attitude toward a possible reconciliation is about the most logical and healthy one I've ever heard of. I don't think you're asking for too much. I just hope she can live up to your expectations. Keep us posted! Stay Sane.
Re:Noooo Too Late :: Act II fisherman: Well it seems she's not interested in having my lawyer draw up the divorce order and signing it... :'(
Then she says she would be willing to do it :)
Then she says she'll need to talk to her lawyer about it :-[
Then she says that she loves me and that she would just be willing to do it if that's what it took ???
So, my guess is that her lawyer is going to giver her a resounding "Hell No!!!" when she asks about it... But at the same time I would be foolish to move forward with any type of reconciliation otherwise. This current marriage is beyond saving... But I'd be willing to work on my relationship with her towards a new marriage IF she complies with my divorce orders...
Her move....
Surprisingly, my feelings for her are not clouding my judgment, I still have a lot of love for her - but in the past few months I've developed a lot of love for myself as well. So I really have nothing at stake here - either way it turns out I'm fine. Though part of me wants things to work out in the long term, I don't feel any desire to compromise in that direction at this point.
Re:Noooo Too Late :: Act II leem03: I still admire your strength Fisherman. If it's meant to be between the two of you, a divorce won't stop it. Heck it could actually make it better for you down the road. Learning about each other all over again.
I hope the path you will be taking starts to become clear for you soon. I think it's harder living in limbo land than actually facing the results one way or the other.
Keep standing strong Fisherman, I'm proud of you for doing it when it would be so easy to just fall back into old patterns with her.
Re:Noooo Too Late :: Act II fisherman: Thanks Leem03, I'm certain Act III will be appearing shortly...
