I thought this would pass sarao525: I seriously thought that this would end up with us getting back together. I didn't want this divorce. I am soo frustrated about everything, because he is trying to keep me from getting what I deserve in the divorce. I am soo frustrated that he is doing this to me. He is the one that cheated on me and got another woman pregnant. I am by far the good one in this. Help with a pick me up.
Re:I thought this would pass cloud: Sarao,
You are in a much better position to heal and move forward into a more positive relationship.
By being able to get in touch with your feelings--I know you don't have a choice--you'll be able to see more clearly what you'd like the next man.
Your ex, however, jumped fairly quickly and he may keep repeating the same mistakes without understanding his actions.
Stay positive!
Re:I thought this would pass wanger1969: I thought too that my ex and I would reconcile, but finally, it was apparent that it was over.
Keep your head up, and know that it will get better, and time will truly heal.
Re:I thought this would pass Tessa: It is hard to give up hope on reconciliation. Once you do though a whole world full of possibilities opens up for you.
You can finally think about what you want. You can go out and have fun doing things that you enjoy. One of the first things I did when I finally starting to give up hope of reconilization was go out and buy a new shirt. It may seem kind of silly but it made me feel good. My x never let me spend my money the way I wanted to. He never let me have fun money. So, I went out and treated myself.
I know things are tough right now but give it time. Things will get better and easier.
Good luck to you.
Re:I thought this would pass Safetykc: Sorry you need a pick-me up Sarao. But its here anytime you need it. You are the strong one and will get through this, one day at a time. The lessons you have learned will make you a stronger, better person even if its hard to see that now in the midst of all this crap...
All I can say for a pick me up is....
[size=10"> BIG HUGS!