Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? kimberly: Just got into this debate with someone on another thread.......
If a married couple is not having sex for a stretch does that intitle the spouse that is being denied to seek sex from other partners??? To me there IS no debate but I'm curious to see some feedback.
Also, do you consider the two crimes (withholding) or (adultery) the same?
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? fkunone: Yes. By all means. Go have sex with whomever, I mean, it's just SEX, isn't it?
Go hump everything while you're at it. I mean, COME ON. You don't have any time to waste. Screw everybody's feelings. Even you're own morality and judgement. Go go go!!!!
And is witholding and adultery the same? Yup. Sure is. If I'm married and she's witholding, I'm ENTITLED to having sex with her so she best give it up. She's cheating on me by being not being available to me whenever I want it.
So yah, give it up, it's our right to get it ON. Marvin Gaye said so.
If you believe my post, GOTCHA!!!!!
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? kimberly: You had me goin' there!!LMO
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? katelyn: Of course it doesn't justify it, but I think by withholding sex you're asking for trouble. We don't live in a perfect world and people make mistakes, have weaknesses, and you're testing fate by withholding sex.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? big_daddy: I think that it does, from my experience. But you have it half backwards.
See...in my marriage, sex was less than seasonal. And trust me, it was by no means a result of my lack of interest, pursuit, or the related.
However, it seems that after a couple years of this, she grew tired of denying me....and decided to go shag some other dude instead. So no, it doesn't entitle us, the denied. It entitles the denying party.
I'll never understand the female mind.
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