Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? kimberly: You had me goin' there!!LMO
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? katelyn: Of course it doesn't justify it, but I think by withholding sex you're asking for trouble. We don't live in a perfect world and people make mistakes, have weaknesses, and you're testing fate by withholding sex.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? big_daddy: I think that it does, from my experience. But you have it half backwards.
See...in my marriage, sex was less than seasonal. And trust me, it was by no means a result of my lack of interest, pursuit, or the related.
However, it seems that after a couple years of this, she grew tired of denying me....and decided to go shag some other dude instead. So no, it doesn't entitle us, the denied. It entitles the denying party.
I'll never understand the female mind.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? jannette Garcia: I dont think anything entitles anyone to cheat. It's a choice made.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? Freckles: [quote author=torn-n-2 link=topic=36004.msg382455#msg382455 date=1160667108">
Just got into this debate with someone on another thread.......
If a married couple is not having sex for a stretch does that intitle the spouse that is being denied to seek sex from other partners??? To me there IS no debate but I'm curious to see some feedback.
Also, do you consider the two crimes (withholding) or (adultery) the same?
[/quote">
A Lady at the Crisis Center told me this: If someone is WITHHOLDING SEX it is a way to get the other spouse to Force them and thus they can say in Divorce court that *He Forced me ! *
She said that happens all the time . That when they withold sex a LOT of the time it is 1/2 they are hoping that thier *Spouse Forces them so they can realley let them have it in Divorce court
And if that does not work, they just get much more hostile(My ExWife)
Click More for the next page.
