Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? jannette Garcia: I dont think anything entitles anyone to cheat. It's a choice made.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? Freckles: [quote author=torn-n-2 link=topic=36004.msg382455#msg382455 date=1160667108">
Just got into this debate with someone on another thread.......
If a married couple is not having sex for a stretch does that intitle the spouse that is being denied to seek sex from other partners??? To me there IS no debate but I'm curious to see some feedback.
Also, do you consider the two crimes (withholding) or (adultery) the same?
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A Lady at the Crisis Center told me this: If someone is WITHHOLDING SEX it is a way to get the other spouse to Force them and thus they can say in Divorce court that *He Forced me ! *
She said that happens all the time . That when they withold sex a LOT of the time it is 1/2 they are hoping that thier *Spouse Forces them so they can realley let them have it in Divorce court
And if that does not work, they just get much more hostile(My ExWife)
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? darkrose: Cheating is never justified. Never.
Jebus people, why can't we just love the one we're with? I mean, is it so hard? A commitment was made. Don't make the commitment if you can't hold up to your end of the bargain. It's really that simple. Sheesh.
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? fkunone: [quote author=darkrose link=topic=36004.msg382539#msg382539 date=1160668709">
Jebus people, why can't we just love the one we're with? [/quote">
Uh, we here at OJAR I believe tried that already?
Re: Is cheating justified because a married couple is having sexual issues??? darkrose: [quote author=Juggernaut link=topic=36004.msg382545#msg382545 date=1160668880">
Uh, we here at OJAR I believe tried that already?
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BWAHAHHAHA! good point..
..but that was directed more towards those who cheat.
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