Re: What am I going to do?? madmax: Many people on this site have experienced the same exact thing. The first weeks are worst...then it will gradually get better...with time. Make a conscious effort to be with friends, family and ojar whether it be in person, phone or email...it will help the most.
DO NOT sit around your place depressed. Force yourself to get out of the house even if just for a walk. I ran 7.5 miles the day after my ex left me...I usually don't run that much in a week. It helped.
You won't want to eat...force youself to eat if you can. All I ate the entire first 10 days was 2 packs of Ramen Noodles...dropped 15 pounds...not good. By maintaining a healthy nutritional level, you'll feel better physically and mentally...as much as can be expected.
Re: What am I going to do?? pwesterv: Thanks... it seems hard to find a point to getting up in the morning now.... I have found out that I have been replaced. After denying it so many times I found the emails.. someone online who left his wife and quit his job to drive down here and be with her... in my house. And worst of all he makes her happy where i could not....hopeless torture
What am I going to do?? pwesterv: I may have posted this in the wrong forum... sorry for the repost:
Wife left me little over a week ago.... Ends a 3 year marriage and 7 year relationship. When we first started dating we were close as any two people could be...We felt we had found each other for a reason and that we fit together in a strange world where other people just did not seem to be like us. we were each others friends and lovers for 7 years and now it is all gone and I am in shock. She finishes law school and decides she wants a new life with the friends she made in school and her new job..... Now I am alone with no real friends to turn to. I have to move out and go live alone somewhere else.. face each day with no reason to do it. She made it all worth while and I dont know how I am going to continue let alone find anyone else i could really fit with like her... damn life sucks
Re: What am I going to do?? Feel: No, you made it worth while... she is where she is because of you as well.
You probably helped her thru school as well with other things.... you lived helping her out and deserve to be with someone who appreciated.
We are here to help!
Re: What am I going to do?? chaotic: You have found the right place.
Please do not think you have to go this alone. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
It is hard to realize that you did not need her to complete who you are. You are you because of YOU. She was there merely to add to your life. People change, she changed, you will adapt and overcome. Do not fear.
We are here to help.
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