ambivalence freakshow: Seriously, make up your mind. I am so tired of hearing you say, "I don't want this divorce, I just don't know how to fix it", as I said it's not the how, you gotta wanna...you need to want it and if you don't want it just say so and sign your damn papers. You're making my life hell. You're dragging my heart around and it HURTS. HURTS real, real bad.
All I want is for you to find your way. I do not want you if you do not want me. I looooovvvvvveeeeeee you! This absolutely sucks.
Be a big boy and make a decision for yourself. Follow what's inside of you.
I hate this feeling. Everytime I see you it's another comment about how you don't want this, if you didn't want it you wouldn't have filed for divorce!
Hello...is anyone in there?
Seriouosly. Making me more depressed.
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Re: ambivalence icwtsmnl: have you guys been to couple's therapy? sounds like an ideal place for you two. he could discover what he really wants and how to fix things.
Re: ambivalence freakshow: Thanks. Yeah he let us have 3 whole sessions, I want more. He doesn't.
I just don't think he loves me or maybe he does...I've not a clue and he doesn't talk to me. When he does it's blaming and ambivalent talk...I can't take it.
Re: ambivalence icwtsmnl: unfortunately, i know where you're coming from.
if he truly didn't love you, he would have been out the door and there wouldn't be all the back and forth mindchanging. i think its very possible he doens't know how to fix the problems (like he said) and thinks the easier way is to give up.
did he say WHY he didn't want to continue therapy?
Re: ambivalence freakshow: come to think of it, he didn't...all he said was he felt therapy wasn't working. We were fighting.
This just sucks. It's been 3 months and my stomach just turns and turns.
He needs to speak up. I wrote him a nice letter letting him know this in a caring way and he didn't respond nor mention it when he called to check on our daughter. All I want is for him to have some clarity.
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