Re: ambivalence icwtsmnl: yes, it's really lovely when you pour your heart out in a letter and they don't respond or even acknowledge it.
I'm sorry, I wish I knew what to advise. All I can say is to let him know all that you written in these posts. and don't let yourself be dragged along indefinitely. set yourself a deadline.
Re: ambivalence tirisfal: It sounds like he is playing games unfortunately. Actions speak louder then words...