Re: Dammed the ones... monkiebutt: You wrote:
even at 50/50 there is child support if the other spouse makes more money that you. if I wanted we can go to the judge with the fact that he ccan and has been able to make 73k a year.
if this person was unemployed like he said and not earning anything living off his savings then how in the hell is he able to add 5k in just 6 months in his account.
I would never be the kind to try to clean anyone out but it is not fare that I'm drowming here while he is taking salsa lessons and having fun yet claiming to be broke.
50/50 or not
Worchid... How do you not know he is not receiving money from friends or family plus I am sure he is on unemployment? Most people who go through divorce do this. I am not defending him but i have read some of your posts. You agreed on 50/50. I would have to guess you both believe it is in the best interests to the kids to raise the kids 50/50 which means to me if you agreed to this your ex must be a great dad and have a good heart. Not many guys take on that responsiblity and not many want it after a divorce. They would rather give all the custody to the woman pay her off and go out to play. I don't think your ex is as bad of a guy as you say. I am sure he messed up at times but hey we all do. Not one of us in here has not.
Ok so... maybe he made good money, maybe he is on unemployment because something bad at his job happend etc.... so now he is a single parent like you used to making good money and now trying to take care of your kids. You were used to probably being taken care of financially and now your not. Now it is up to you not him.
Don't ask me why but I have followed some of your post, your screen name got me I guess, I like it.... Anyway you left him and both agreed on 50/50 and you agreeing new what that means. Means there is usually no child support or very little. Sounds like he made ok money in the past but not now, he is unemployeed as you say and I am sure not by his choice. It is not fair to go after someone on previous income just because someone made that in the past and expect them to pay on that previous income for future child support for 18 years etc...on a 50/50 case at that. You gave him 50% custody because he must be a great dad or why else would you do that. So again this tells me he must be somewhat of a good guy and not a dead beat. I say leave him a lone. You wanted out you got out because you think you were unhappy because of him and I think different. I have my theory put together from your previous posts I have read, ask nicely and I might share it with you.
Call me a Baboon :)
Re: Dammed the ones... monkiebutt: [quote author=worchid76 link=topic=36012.msg383700#msg383700 date=1160790059">
even at 50/50 there is child support if the other spouse makes more money that you. if I wanted we can go to the judge with the fact that he ccan and has been able to make 73k a year.
if this person was unemployed like he said and not earning anything living off his savings then how in the hell is he able to add 5k in just 6 months in his account.
I would never be the kind to try to clean anyone out but it is not fare that I'm drowming here while he is taking salsa lessons and having fun yet claiming to be broke.
50/50 or not >:(
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Re: Dammed the ones... monkiebutt: [quote author=worchid76 link=topic=36012.msg383700#msg383700 date=1160790059">
even at 50/50 there is child support if the other spouse makes more money that you. if I wanted we can go to the judge with the fact that he ccan and has been able to make 73k a year.
if this person was unemployed like he said and not earning anything living off his savings then how in the hell is he able to add 5k in just 6 months in his account.
I would never be the kind to try to clean anyone out but it is not fare that I'm drowming here while he is taking salsa lessons and having fun yet claiming to be broke.
50/50 or not >:(
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Dammed the ones... worchid76: :-[ The one's who go out of their way not to get a job or "make money under the table" just to have no means to pay child support.
look A hole I'm not coming after your sorry behind so why R U being such an ass >:(
You are making me angry and now I feel like I should unleash my lawyer on you...
Re: Dammed the ones... big_daddy: Do put your lawyer on him.
There is no place in this world for fathers or mothers for that matter, who believe that they are above the need to support their children.
He needs a slap of reality.
