Re: This weekend may kill me faraday: Thank you everyone for being there for me- isn't it strange- we come on this board and we support and care for eachother through one of the most traumatic times of our lives, and we were strangers. And the people we devote ourselves to in the end are not the ones that end up being there for us
I will get through- I have no choice- Ihave my daughter to take care of- but inside I feel like things are withering and dying and I will never get them back- that is how I feel even though I know with my brain what is going on
If it wasn't for you guys, I don't think I would have made it this far
And there are several of you on here, you know who you are, that go above and beyond for me at all hours of the night and day- you have no idea what it means to me- I hope I am as loyal
Re: This weekend may kill me toolate: Holy heck - I adore my stbx – in laws, but even so - I cant even contemplate going thru this with an audience, let alone an inlaw audience.
I am awed at your strength.
I obviously don’t know the situation, but is there anyway you and your daughter can get out, maybe even do a hotel room for the night? Just get some space/breathing room? Just an idea, but its something that I did with my parents (single parents with just me). We would do an overnight trip somewhere - some really awesome memories on my part & I loved the one on one with the parental unit where they could focus on me the whole time....
Good Luck!!!!
Re: This weekend may kill me caliban2:
faraday,
More great advise and support for you from all the compassionate strangers here at ojar :)
Here is some from me: the pain you'll go through this week-end might break you, or.... maybe it will help set you free. I think it will be the latter!!
- caliban2
