Re: Bear with me guys, this isn't easy. superwife: [quote author=2be link=topic=36022.msg383260#msg383260 date=1160752760">
Tar... I feel bad that you hold SO much anger. You have a right to do so as you were hurt just as bad as many of us. But SC is NOT your exwife so don't put her in your sights. She made a mistake and is living the consequences. Despite what side of the coin we are on, we are here for support and encouragement. Your post did nothing except spew your anger. Did it make you feel better? I assume you are perfect and not moronic in the least.
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2be, I am okay with Tar's reply. We already duked it out in PM :D
Re: Bear with me guys, this isn't easy. 2be: Good to hear. I wasn't trying to defend you per se, I just felt his response was uncalled for, no matter how hurt he is by his exwife.
Re: Bear with me guys, this isn't easy. TarheelMike: [quote author=2be link=topic=36022.msg383260#msg383260 date=1160752760">
Tar... I feel bad that you hold SO much anger. You have a right to do so as you were hurt just as bad as many of us. But SC is NOT your exwife so don't put her in your sights. She made a mistake and is living the consequences. Despite what side of the coin we are on, we are here for support and encouragement. Your post did nothing except spew your anger.[/quote">
Okay, exactly what the hell is so offensive about "Can't say that I'm not disappointed"? I guess you didn't read THIS part:
[quote author=Tarheel link=topic=36022.msg383000#msg383000 date=1160697817">
hopefully everything will work out for you now.
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Believe me, if I wanted to blast her, I would have. Have you not read any of the posts I've written where I'm REALLY angry? Geez, this looks like a Hallmark card in comparison.
Oh that's right, I forgot... I'm not allowed to react to anything anymore. I'm supposed to be a robot with eternal smile on my face and hand and arm that's only motion is "pat on the back." Next time I'll just lie about how I feel. I mean, lying is okay, too, right?
[quote"> I assume you are perfect and not moronic in the least.
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You're learning.
In all seriousness, I'm not perfect, but in my own opinion, which I guess you could say is biased, outside of one REALLY dumb decision five years ago, I've managed to stay away from "moronic" decisions. (And that one decision I made didn't affect anybody but myself.) Allow me to apologize here and now to anybody who I may have offended because I hate seeing people hurt other people. I suppose that's a bad thing, too.
Re: Bear with me guys, this isn't easy. kimberly: Hey tarheel, for the record I found nothing offensive about your reply. We should be free to reply any way we please. Sometimes comments will be constructive sometimes brutally honest. This forum(the world for that matter) would be pretty boring and dull if all we did was blow sunshine up everyone's a$$.
Superchick, Of course I can't say I believe you when you say you'll never cheat again because one is either morally capable or not morally capable you obviously are. You could have left before the affair started or tried harder to make things work, you said it yourself the more involved you got with your OM the more things bothered you at home and gave you reason in your mind to persue the affair...........at least you've seen and felt the consequences.
Re: Bear with me guys, this isn't easy. katelyn: [quote"> Superchick, Of course I can't say I believe you when you say you'll never cheat again because one is either morally capable or not morally capable you obviously are. [/quote">
Oh that's such f-cking B.S.. I take personal offense. If you don't believe people can learn from their mistakes and change, you are an ignorant fool. That goes for all of you. To quote Tar- Kiss my ass.
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