Re: Is it cheating?????? tirisfal: I dunno I see both sides of this issue as well. I didn't want to date until it was legally final. However, my ex was all into it ASAP.
Re: Is it cheating?????? down2basics: [quote author=kitkat link=topic=36029.msg383067#msg383067 date=1160710391">
It really depends on what YOU see as the end of the marriage. For some it's not until they receive the paperwork stating they are no longer married. For others the marriage end when one or both parties say it's over (the legal end being just a formality).
If you're among the first group you will feel guilty. If you're among the 2nd you won't. It's your call. ;)
[/quote"> I have to agree. Marriage is as much a state of your heart as it is a document filed at the courthouse.
Given she never even filed the papers with the court, I suspect that the committment in her heart was never really there. If that is the case, then the marriage committment was never truly there.
Therefore, if you feel it's time to have some fun, then by all means, GO! Waiting for the judge to slam the gavel is formality, not reality.
