up and down shpek: hi everyone. I need some help today. about a week and a 1/2 ago i finally started feeling better, a little anyways. now the past few days i've been feeling down again. lots of you have told me this is normal and it parts of the ups and downs... i'm tired of feeling like this. it's been 3 months now. i so want to feel enthusiastic about life again. even ay my job it's been difficult. I guess there's no way around this process and I shouldnt put too much pressure on me. this kind of thing takes time.
it would really help me if some of you could tell me how you're doing. some of you have told me that you're feeling the same way i am (thanks for sharing). i guess i need some more support. ???
Re: up and down icwtsmnl: I would love to give you support, but all I can say that i'm right there with you on a low dip of the rollercoaster. At least you're not alone in that. :)
3 months isn't that long when you've really loved someone. you'll see that going forward, there are less and less low dips and later there are none. hang in there. we're with you. hugs!
Re: up and down td7629: Hang in there.. We have all been there or are there right now with you. It does get better with time.. Try doing something really fun this weekend!
Re: up and down shpek: Dips in the rollercoaster... i guess thats what i'm hitting. again I just started feeling slightly better. i'm by no means my normal happy self. i've even been on a couple dates! but i know i can get too serious with anyone right now. maybe if i met someone really special but i think just dating is a good thing.
i know theres nothing no one can say. it bothers me that this break up has had such an impact on me but i truely gave all i had to the X and she just threw it away like trash. i dont think its the amount of time you spend with someone but the amount of love you had.
dont you just miss being your normal/happy self. looking forward to life again? i know that sounds negative but i also know you guys understand.
thanks for the support
Re: up and down Feel: Shpek,
Your not in this a lone... I hear ya, we all hear ya.... I feel bad tho, I wish we had switches in our bodies to just shut off an don when we wanted!
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