Re: up and down shpek: yeah would that be great. and honestly, i bet my could give a sh*t and she's probably fine and dating someone else. wanting a partner in my life would help complete me. that doesnt mean i'm not complete or comfortable on my own, but more oone of the things i value and want out of life is to share it with someone. it's frustrating because ive been through enough of relationships/break ups and i know what I want and i have a lot to offer. why things go the way they do sometimes i have no idea. all i know is i try my best and nothing has worked out yet. it's hard because you think something's wrong with you...
Re: up and down gdaisygirl: Hey Shpek,
Believe me you are not alone. I'm sitting here thinking it is a Friday night and I should be out doing something..but you know what..I don't want to go to the bars and what I really want is to be able to go to dinner and a movie and hang out with someone special.
I feel the same way you do about a relationship and that partnership and I would feel so happy to have that with someone. I am so ready in my life to have that special someone again. There is nothing wrong with you what I would say is that there has to be something wrong with all the women you have been dating to not want to be with someone as nice as you seem.
Try to stay positive and just keep posting on here. I will do the same :)
Gdaisy
Re: up and down pwesterv: Wow that was just what i was thinking,, how it is Friday and I dont want to go out on the prowl... I just want to curl up with someone and watch TV, make dinner and have fun together... Damn I did not want this..Nice guys get eaten alive out there.... Anyway sry shepk for piling on... I gues i am not very helpful other than i know where you are and i wish I was 3 months along...
Re: up and down shpek: gdaisygirl,
you're sweet. we are definately in the same boat. same goes for you pwesterv. i know i have been dating the wrong women. i think ive learned alot though and no more dating women like that. i am going to be more careful and a bit picky. definately not going to jump into anything. i'm still finding myself. after a break up i think u need to get back to yourself.
i know i'm not perfect, who is? we all have flaws and relationships take work. that aside i think i'm a good person and i know how to treat someone. both of you describe exactly where i'm at in my life. hanging out, cooking dinner, watching a movie etc... thatsw where i'm at too.
pwesterv, how long has it been for u? this is a slow process - healing from a break up. its different for everyone. at least we know we're not alone.
thanks for writing - talk soon!
Re: up and down gdaisygirl: Shpek,
Thank you :) I definitely think that everyone has flaws and that no one is perfect. But I feel the same as you do Shpek..I'm ready to have that relationship where we can go out but yet we love to be at home enjoy our time togehter watching a movie, making a nice dinner etc.
The whole bar scene is really quite boring to me anymore. I like to get together with friends have some drinks and hang out anymore. I hope that we will all find hapiness and that each of us starts to feel a bit better day by day. I feel good, just lonely for that special someone.
Gdaisygirl
Click More for the next page.
