I don't want to think NO MORE.....Explain this Feel: this morning I get a call from my Ex, and pretty much you all know my story... so anyway, I'm at work... he asks how I am feeling cause I have a head cold and my back hurts.... I tell him I am fine and getting by... asks if I have gone to the doc's an dback to see the message theropist. I told him I haven't been back because I can't afford it this month (they cost a lot...) he says, you know if I had the money I would give it to you to go and I wuld help out.... (ok, then help out with clothing and shoes for your son, maybe a coat and more money for my daily expenses ::)) I say ya thanks, I know!
Then an hour later I get an email from him, it's an E-CARD... i don't want to open it because i am kinds iffy about it but I do anyway... he sends me a singing hope you feel better card.... and writed me a little message about us not ebing together but he still cares! love G................
I send back a reply, thanks.... He sends me areply back.... "your welcome Beautiful!" I spit my coffe out of my mouth.
Now my court date for custody is coming as well as spliting the money and back pay he ows me witha couple of other things.... I wonder if he is trying to be nice because her in Ontario, Toronto, it the parents don't get a long, only one is granted Full Custody, or maybe he is trying to be nice becuase his girlfirned (OW) left him, or maybe he is still wanted to come back, or maybe he is jsut playing games, OR maybe he is just beimg plain old (real old) nice....
I hate these thoughts... I am moving on and working toward a new and healthy future and realtionship...
Also I forgot to mention, my son had swimming classes that he told him he'd come too and he never showed up! :-\
Re: I don't want to think NO MORE.....Explain this mariher: Moving backwards you sometimes stumble and fall. Maybe he is just trying to be friends with you but if that's not what you want, then you have to tell him to quit with the calls and the e-cards. (Unless he needs to talk to you about your child). Has he mentioned anything to you about trying to work things out?
Re: I don't want to think NO MORE.....Explain this Feel: It's funny you say that Mar...... I am telling you to keep the no contact and yet I answer his call..
I was at work when he called and it was pretty quick on the phone.... so I am not really thinking so much about it but when he does do this, since you spend so much time with this person and have a child you wonder if they would have ever changed...
Anyway I know where we stand, who knows maybe in 10 years, maybe then I will think about it. Until then I want to be happy now an dnot think of all the bad a person who I loved dearly hurt me this much!
Re: I don't want to think NO MORE.....Explain this faraday: Remember all the things you tell me- they are all true even when our hearts don't want to acknowledge it- you give me wonderful and truthful advice- try to remember- would you give up everything you have accomplished and what you have now for someone you cannot trust and who has hurt you this much? I know what you will answer- remember you deserve so much better, you are such a good person
And I hope you feel better!
Re: I don't want to think NO MORE.....Explain this chaotic: Feel,
You are not going to like what I am about to say.
Right now it sounds like you are the "back up girl". By that I mean that he treats you like he does because he thinks that he can get back with you. He thinks that when things are going wrong with his OW, he can fall back on you. He will continue to string you along by trying to be nice to you. Then when things with the OW pick up, he starts getting mean.
Dont be the "Back up girl".
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