Re: WTF is up with women?
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Re: WTF is up with women? darkrose: [quote author=katelyn link=topic=36068.msg383681#msg383681 date=1160788132">
Yeah but you're not sending her photo's of your date tonight either, are you. That's just tacky.

WTF is up with men.
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Nah..I didn't take my camera. *grins*

Seriously, she's pretty much the one who's been encouraging me to see people. I just don't get it. Maybe she felt threatened by the POF profile.. Maybe she felt like I wouldn't talk to her anymore.. *shrug*

Maybe she was just having a bad day. We'll see, as of right now she's supposed to hang out with me on Sunday for a little while..so I don't know.
Re: WTF is up with women? darkrose: [quote author=Medusa link=topic=36068.msg383599#msg383599 date=1160776235">
I think we're back to the ladder theory .

She wants to think she's the highest chick on your ladder, even if you're "on her wrong ladder." 

Now you're demonstrating awareness of women who might even be MORE interesting for you than she is.

Kinda insecure/immature on her part, albeit 100% human and understandable.

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Yeah, but the thing is she's encouraging me to use some step stools. *laughs*

That is an interesting theory..The problem is I'm not ready for anything major right now. I'm all for hanging out, doing stuff. She knows I want to meet new people and try new things. It's really not that I don't want to be with her or anything, just right now I *can't* be with her..for a lot of reasons..I told her how I felt..I really do care about her..I just can't commit to anything right now..besides..she has a boyfriend already..even if it's not serious, she calls him her boyfriend with gives at least some sort of familiarity.

Of course, she could be completely full of crap and trying to get me to "make her dump him" or something. This is why I don't understand women. *grins*


Re: WTF is up with women? sheeps: I can sum up this post in one word:

Discretion.
Re: WTF is up with women? katelyn: Dude it's fine to chit chat with her about dating around and stuff, but if you guys are "sort of" interested in each other, sending her photos or excerpts of your convos with other chicks or WHATEVER is tacky.



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