A letter came in the mail flyaway: From none other than the OW. :o
In it, she basically describes how the emotional affair was born. And then the last page of it, she tells me that she feels that she has wronged me and my family terribly. That she feels badly about it, and hoping that some day, I can find it in my heart to forgive her.
I need to wait this one out. I cannot respond. Not till the shock of it has worn off. I'm not shocked at the revelations....I already knew the facts. But I'm shocked that she feels badly. My stbx doesn't. Of course. But women usually are a bit more sensitive I think, as far as concience goes.
I think I will write her back eventually. Don't know when. I need to wait.
flyaway
Re: A letter came in the mail ace1234: Hey flyaway,
Wow, that's interesting huh? I wonder if that happens frequently to people with some kind of conscience?? She obviously doesn't have much of one if she was fooling around with a married guy, but...
I think you're right to take some time with that one.
Good luck!
l8r
Re: A letter came in the mail MadorSad: You are a rock Fly. 8)
I'm happy to call you a friend ;D
Re: A letter came in the mail Lumpy: [quote author=flyaway link=topic=36106.msg383844#msg383844 date=1160840524">
From none other than the OW. :o
In it, she basically describes how the emotional affair was born. And then the last page of it, she tells me that she feels that she has wronged me and my family terribly. That she feels badly about it, and hoping that some day, I can find it in my heart to forgive her.
I need to wait this one out. I cannot respond. Not till the shock of it has worn off. I'm not shocked at the revelations....I already knew the facts. But I'm shocked that she feels badly. My stbx doesn't. Of course. But women usually are a bit more sensitive I think, as far as concience goes.
I think I will write her back eventually. Don't know when. I need to wait.
flyaway
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Just tell her that she did you a favor. Food for thought. ;)
Re: A letter came in the mail flyaway: lmao!!
Lumpy...ya know, the thought went through my head. But that's why i'm going to wait. lol
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