Re: A letter came in the mail newts: Fly, I would say that he is checting on her too... she would never admit this to you.
I like that your best interest is for your child, that is very honorable.
I would just say smile and don't respond.
Re: A letter came in the mail alonewith2: I'm not sure I would respond, but I've never been in that position. I don't think you should warn her or say anything that could be misconstrued as an attempt to split them up or cause them problems...which is how that will be taken, no matter how good your intentions are.
If you feel the need to reply, just tell her that you've moved on, and then leave it at that.
Re: A letter came in the mail Alphabet Girl: I wouldn't reply, either. If she knew she was the other woman and continued the relationship, then she'll just find some sort of a justifcation for why it was okay for him to cheat on you, too.
Re: A letter came in the mail worchid76: If you do decide to reply, I'm sure it will be something smart. I think if she ecided to write to yo maybe it is because she has noticed already that things might not have been "all you" like you say they have been together or 3 years already.
I would reply, because it must have taken a lot for her to do it in the first place. I know you are a great, and strong person and forgive.
She's the one getting the bad deal in the end ;)
Re: A letter came in the mail flyaway: Last night, I picked up my girls from their dad's house, and of course SHE was there. Hugging and kissing my girls goodbye, and calling them sweetheart. *gag*
She looked up and me, and smiled and said "hi" I didn't say a word. I couldn't. It's like my heart gets ripped out through the top of my head everytime I have to lay eyes on this little family. Yeah. The one where I was tossed out of, and replaced. Even before I knew I was replaced. :'( :'( :'(
My girls are sooo happy there. They're so content. Which is lovely. I'm glad for them. But sometimes, it's easy to think that they wouldn't be from a broken home anymore if I wasn't in the picture. :'( :'( :'(
They suffer everytime I have to take them away from there, and bring them back home. :'( :'( :'(
I still haven't replied to the letter. I can't. I want to hurt her. I want to hurt her badly. Like I was hurt. Like I see my girls being hurt everytime I take them away from their dad.
*scream* :'( :'( :'(
I am fine. Unless I have to see her. Which, apparently, I'll have to do at least once or twice a week for the rest of my existance. *or until the girls turn 18, whichever comes first*
ugh. my stomach hurts. :'( :'( :'(
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