Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath
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Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath CDNgurl: ok - can I bounce this one off you?

How about a father getting IN the tub?  How about when there is no need - like in the middle of the day?

oh ... and how about getting in the tub with New Wife's 5 year old son?

Maybe I"m a prude??  I'm just not cool with it.

Discuss...
Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath allilm: Yeah, that probably wouldn't work, unless swim suits were worn. 


Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath CDNgurl: [quote author=alli link=topic=36508.msg389692#msg389692 date=1161706804">
Yeah, that probably wouldn't work, unless swim suits were worn. 
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nope - no swim suits.  I can understand in some cultures the whole family gets in the sauna in the nude...  but one on one - a grown man and another man's boy...  ick.  (Is it just me??)
Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath allilm: No, it's not just you! 
Re: Playing with a 5 yo in the bath katelyn: F no it's not just you, CDN. That is downright inappropriate.

It's a little weird for a father to cram into a bath with his son (not so bad if it's a shower), but ESPECIALLY weird to do it with someone elses son!
spooky, I don't think it's weird for you to sit with your daugther in the bathroom. My son always says "Can you visit with me?" he likes it. It's one-on-one time. But I get bored after like 5 minutes lol.

I have a similar question. My son is 6 yrs old, and he has always grabbed his toys, stripped down and jumped in the shower with me, whenever he sees me taking a shower. This isn't that often, as I generally shower early in the morning before he's even awake. I have no problem with it, neither of us feel uncomfortable being nekked in front of each other but my mom and my bf have told me that uh, it's TIME to start having a boundary there. It just feels silly though. Every time he runs in my bedroom when I'm changing after work - I have to hide and say "Don't come in, mom's naked". He doesn't get why it's a problem.
Is it really that big a deal?

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