Re: Am I obligated? pluscachange: [quote author=torn-n-2 link=topic=36522.msg390557#msg390557 date=1161785300">
I PITY THE FOOL that does'nt like my jewels!!!
(my Mr. T impression)
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From what I've seen, you've very nice jewels. What guy wouldn't like them? ;)
Ok, yeah, I'm back in High School again, my bad. lol
Re: Am I obligated? flyaway: [quote author=torn-n-2 link=topic=36522.msg390579#msg390579 date=1161786365">
Sarcasm? get outta town! Thanks for clearing that one up. ROLF!!!!!
*sorry I guess my attempt at humour just don't phase this tough crowd* crash and burn :(
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oooops. my bad. I've been awake for erm 16 hours now. I should go to bed. :-\
Re: Am I obligated? yella: Flygirl... you went out to have fun, and you had fun. If he wanted to advance, bump and grind, and steal a kiss from you, that was his problem - not yours - especially if he was the one who started the whole thing.
You had fun, he had fun. I don't see anything that you did wrong here. And I agree with the others... if he really wanted to talk to you, he could have asked if he could call you. ;)
Am I obligated? flyaway: Ok. I ended up going to a club on Friday night with a girlfriend. She had just broken up with her *very bad for her* boyfriend this past week, and needed to get out. We got there, and right from the get-go, were laughing, and dancing, and generally having a great time. btw, Raspberry Vodka is teh yum!
*ahem* alright. There was this guy there, tall, nice smile, joined my gf and me at our table. He was from out of town, and well, looked lonely. But we started talking, and laughing, and then he asked to dance. OK. so we go out there. Now, this is a "shake that thang" sorta place, not a hold your partner close and move together sort of place.
he started getting a bit more ummmm, brave? And you know...well, kinda started bumping and grinding...alright, I may have been a bit buzzed, and enjoying the music....and so kinda got into it, right?
He even stole a kiss. Well, around 12:30am, my gf and I decided it was time to leave. I turned to him and said goodnight, and he got this stunned look in his eyes. And tried to argue me outta leaving....nicely of course.
I, at this point, was pretty aware that he had ONE thing on his brain, and I wasn't going to help him with that, so I pretty much ran away. *at least I didn't WANT to help him with that* ::)
But well, my question is: if I'm behaving that way with someone at the bar, am I obligated to offer my number to him? Or even go "home" with him? Did I break some sort of unwritten rule, that if you flirt with and kiss a guy, you NEED to go further?
I'm sorry if this sounds stupid and naive, but I don't do the bar scene. I guess I just want to know for next time.
Flyaway
Re: Am I obligated? BobFromAcctg: NO OBLIGATION... PERIOD!!!
The most important thing is that you are always able to look yourself in the mirror in the morning, and have no regrets.
So, if you didn't feel comfortable giving a phone number - don't. He is a big boy and he will find someone else.
Just my opinion
The Bobster.
