Re: Am I obligated? pluscachange: You're certainly under no obligation, however, I'd consider the signals I was sending out in that situation and perhaps avoid doing so in the future if you don't want that kind of attention.
Re: Am I obligated? allilm: There is absolutely nothing you could possibly do that would ever obligate you to give any guy your phone number, or go home with them. Like you mentioned, you would have gladly given him your phone number, but seeing as you mentioned he was from out-of-town, he may have just been looking for a one-night-stand. If that was his expectation, then he's at fault.
Re: Am I obligated? chaotic: I dont believe that you did anything that would have built up an obligation on your part. He could have offered his number. If you were intererested and he asked...You could have given yours....But obligated...No.
Re: Am I obligated? snkpack: Tease. ;)
Re: Am I obligated? yella: Flygirl... you went out to have fun, and you had fun. If he wanted to advance, bump and grind, and steal a kiss from you, that was his problem - not yours - especially if he was the one who started the whole thing.
You had fun, he had fun. I don't see anything that you did wrong here. And I agree with the others... if he really wanted to talk to you, he could have asked if he could call you. ;)
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