Re: What do I do???? Feel: LSP, you came to the right board, and all of us here will help you...
Chaotic did wonders for me, he doesn't ahve kids but he helped me a lot with the manipulation part of it... he is so rights.
And just like Faraday. we never thought these things could happen....
Stay strong.
Re: What do I do???? icantcope: dont go near that man with a ten foot pole.
I know you have something together, and that is children, and that is just it; protect you and your darling(s) and stay far from him. he will only cause you further grief. How can you forget what he has done and how he has played you!?
Re: What do I do???? idocsteve: 1) He has cheated on you and has chose the other woman over you.
2) You filed for divorce which is your only option.
3) Make sure that you are legally represented by a competant attorney and get support for yourself and your children.
4) Take steps to protect your marital assets and your custody rights.
5) Don't interfere with his relationship with his children. You are only hurting them. This is not their battle.
6) Move on with your life. Someday you will find someone who deserves you.
Re: What do I do???? wtfjusthappenned: perfectly said idoc.
listen, i am going through something similar to you, but without the kids. seriously pay attention to what people on this site say. noone here may be psychiatrists (sp?) or professional counsel, but everyone here comes here for a reason. i could not be even having the ups-and-downs i do right now if it weren't for these people and their stories and advice. be strong, be resolved. you are doing the right thing.
Re: What do I do???? opal66: Stay strong - you are doing the right thing.
