Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b masterlow: [quote author=pluscachange link=topic=36531.msg389029#msg389029 date=1161627852">
Look, if you're not sure now, then "let's see how it pans out" isn't going to cut it. It might work one time, but as somebody else already said, after that initial rush of new relationship is over, you're going to notice, and notice big.
Don't put her through the pain man.
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Arrgghh...the truth hurts. Thanks, plusachange. ;)
Hopefully she will be willing to just be friends.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b allilm: And maybe while you're just hanging out as friends, you could invite her to do something fun that would also be great exercise. As it gets colder outside, I'm not sure what kind of activities you have in your area, but the connection you have with her, might be a great motivation for her to get more active.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' body? clambakesX: Don't expect her to want to remain friends, unless you have some common activity or hobby or something. And it doesn't sound like you truly want to put a lot of time into platonic relationships right now.
I think if you were really into her, the weight wouldn't matter. I've posted about this in the past. I have a pronounced preference for lean, but once in a while I've met someone where that suddenly was irrelevant.
For tonight ... if you can change your hang-out venue to something in a group or public setting, so it's clearly on a buddy level, you'll have it easier.
Don't pull the "I'm not ready" balogna. I've tried that, and people just hang on, hang around, hoping. Ugh. And don't tell her it's the weight. Brutal honesty in this case would just make you look like a jerk. If you look at past threads, you'll see where I've been viewed as a jerk. Maybe you can tell her you get along fabulously and you really really want to feel chemistry, but it's just not clicking for you. Or something like that.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b katelyn: [quote author=masterlow link=topic=36531.msg389027#msg389027 date=1161627690">
I guess I can pull the "I'm not ready, the breakup is still too fresh on my mind, I don't want to rush into anything" card.
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OMG this is so the typical dude using chick talk to manipulate. Pathetic.
She is entitled to making her own educated decision based on FACTS, not your coward man talk. You don't have to be cruel. Just tell her you do not think you are interested in her "like that." What's the big deal? We women are not fragile beings that can't take the truth. Give her some damn credit. ::)
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b clambakesX: [quote author=katelyn link=topic=36531.msg389052#msg389052 date=1161629633">
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I guess I can pull the "I'm not ready, the breakup is still too fresh on my mind, I don't want to rush into anything" card.
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OMG this is so the typical dude using chick talk to manipulate. Pathetic.
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That's what happens when men spend too much time with women as buddies ... they try to become how we like our women friends to be, and the hybrid rarely works.
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