Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b pluscachange: [quote author=katelyn link=topic=36531.msg389052#msg389052 date=1161629633">
[quote author=masterlow link=topic=36531.msg389027#msg389027 date=1161627690">
I guess I can pull the "I'm not ready, the breakup is still too fresh on my mind, I don't want to rush into anything" card.
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OMG this is so the typical dude using chick talk to manipulate. Pathetic.
She is entitled to making her own educated decision based on FACTS, not your coward man talk. You don't have to be cruel. Just tell her you do not think you are interested in her "like that." What's the big deal? We women are not fragile beings that can't take the truth. Give her some damn credit. ::)
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Have to agree here.
Talk like a man is the best advice. Not talk cruely or be a jerk, but be honest and straight forward.
The "good" women understand that this is how guys talk (or should talk) and react accordingly.
This is why, when I was dating, women would learn quickly not to ask my thoughts on something they didn't want to hear the truth about (iow, they wanted me to lie or play the word game with them). I'd tell them the truth (tactfully). Scared a lot of them out of their wits.
Meh, for the best, in the long run, to tell the truth.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b icwtsmnl: [quote author=masterlow link=topic=36531.msg389022#msg389022 date=1161627142">
It's a weight thing. She is not fat, but she is definitley what I would call "plump"; just a bit larger than "thick".
Her face is very very cute, though. She has great eyes and a great smile. When we are just talking and hanging out I find I am very very attracted to her. It's only when we start to fool around that I begin to notice her size.
This sucks, because I really really enjoy spending time with her. We have some great chemistry.
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keep being friendly with her. cause you will be very very very sorry if she loses the weight and you've already burned that bridge.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' body? katelyn: Icw, stop being a dude.
Hehe j/k. ;)
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b masterlow: [quote author=alli link=topic=36531.msg389039#msg389039 date=1161628859">
And maybe while you're just hanging out as friends, you could invite her to do something fun that would also be great exercise. As it gets colder outside, I'm not sure what kind of activities you have in your area, but the connection you have with her, might be a great motivation for her to get more active.
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Actually, it's funny you mention that. She has just started going to a gym regularly since we started hanging out.
We also like to go bowling together, although that isn't the most cardiovascular of activities.
Re: Getting over physique. Can a bangin' personality make up for a non-bangin' b masterlow: [quote author=Medusa link=topic=36531.msg389045#msg389045 date=1161629257">
Don't expect her to want to remain friends, unless you have some common activity or hobby or something. And it doesn't sound like you truly want to put a lot of time into platonic relationships right now.
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I woudn't go as far as to say I don't want any platonic relationships right now. I'm actually working on a couple of those with some other Friend-Girls at the moment. I met this girl through them.
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