Re: this weekend Crystal_Blue_024: [quote author=Clarice link=topic=36532.msg392597#msg392597 date=1161961151">
"During the week it's all good and he wants to spend time with me and yadda yadda yadda, but as soon as the weekend rolls around I get the cold shoulder"
that is because he is committed to her on the weekends
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I know :-\ :(
Well he made these plans with me for tomorrow a MONTH ago, if he blows me off, he's donzo... I'm gonna tell him to kick rocks... That's it... I'm setting the boundary right now....
Re: this weekend allmusic76: Is that picture of you Crystal?
I'm not trying to be frisky.... but you are an attractive person. As much as it sounds crappy.... this is a very media-centric world... and you should have no problem going out and getting someone else.
Why keep letting him hurt you. Every time you come back, you are empowering him to do it again.
Re: this weekend Crystal_Blue_024: Yes, that's me all... And thank you :)
And I know you're right... I keep falling into this damn pattern of putting up with bull shit over and over and over again... I need to reach my damn limit... I deserve more than this crap!!!!
Re: this weekend allmusic76: This may sound like I'm playing the devil's advocate, but instead of silently putting up with things.... I'd try approaching him with your frustrations.
However, when you do it, try to remain as calm as possible. I've noticed that a lot of people consider "approach" to mean "attack" lol.
When I approach someone, my first comment is usually " I need your help with something."
At the very least, it usually grabs the person's attention.
Re: this weekend icwtsmnl: um, guys.....this was my unsent letter thread. :-\
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