Re: this weekend icwtsmnl: i have the opposite problem. i keep telling him and telling him and he won't do anything about it.
Re: this weekend allmusic76: :( Im so sorry.....
It's too bad we can't trade energy.... I'll send you 50% of my "will do something when someone asks me to do it" if you send me 50% of your " confronts mate with problems so he isn't out to dry"
Re: this weekend icwtsmnl: you got it.
if only it were that easy.....
Re: this weekend allmusic76: Nothing about any of this is easy....
But I'm really really glad this site exists. It's nice to know that there are people out there to share experiences. I feel connected to something again.... which is kinda nice.
Re: this weekend icwtsmnl: M-
i tried to end things with you the other week because i know in my heart we will not last forever, and you've gone back to the way you were. but you didn't really let me (which I know is lame excuse, I could have hung up the phone and not given you the chance to talk me out of it).
i know that you just don't know HOW to express emotion or feeling or love, and you don't really know how to look under the surface of someone's words or actions. i offered to help you and show you, and you said ok. but you're so defensive, i don't think you really want to learn and change. you were just saying anything to keep me around, weren't you?
my heart is breaking, and you either don't care, or you just don't know what to do. i shouldn't have to be afraid to discuss these things with you, yet i am, because i don't want to deal with your defensiveness.
i wait for this weekend to see if you'll play golf, and then tell me you don't have time for me. what will i do then? walk away? i need help.
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