I know better, always have! Feel: I know better then to ever think that my X would ever change...
He is such a jerk... calls me just to agrivate me... Friday night he calls about 12.30am, I don't answer than out of the blue, I am in a deep sleep adn I don' t know whats hapening, my phone is ringing at 4.45am saturday morning just to get blasted... start arguing with me that Nm is at the house...
this guy has been banging the OW since 2004 married to me and now still with the ow and the one from work but I am not allowed to move on wioth my life....
You know even if I was guarenteed that he changed, I would never go back, just because of the fact that I am treated like some piece of shit!
then he goes to Downey's Farm with the one from work who has a little girl and my son, the one he spoke with badly about me to call me about 8pm, telling that the steaks are on sale to go buy them.... WTF, do I care about steaks being on sale, just don't call me unless it's about our son!
Then he calls me 3 times sunday morning... wanting me to hear songs, tells me his mom said I called.... BULLSHIT, I was tucked away in the NM arms...not calling you buddy....
Doesn't call teh rest of the day misses his 8.00pm phone call to his son... and then when I still let him speak to him, he asks my son who's there? My son tells him teh truth and he insists that the NM is there, my son gets upset and then takes it out on me... THen the X starts telling me about calling him names to others (don't even talk about him) and starts telling me I want only his money (has none) not to mention says he'd like to spit in my face... I tell him well hyour used to that... wouldn't be much of a change!
Now I have this fundraiser for my son's daycare on Friday and he is coming too unfortunaltely, and I have to act like everything is ok...
I am so angry.... and today he doesn't show up to work, he gets drunk all the time and on Saturday wasn't even there at my son's pickup, because the night before he was out drinking again, that was the morning I get my 5am phone call... and I am supposed to agree to joint custody, who the hell are we kidding!
I hope that on my court date they grant me sole custoday... I would never keep hjim from his son, but he puts hiom thru to much not to mention me! Nor do I think he is fit! >:(
Re: I know better, always have! chaotic: Sounds like someone is drunk dialing. Sorry you have to put up with this crap Feel. He is acting like a middle schooler....Because even high schoolers are more mature than this. I hope you get sole custody because then you could change your number and end his calls. Can you perhaps get a court order that he can ONLY call in regards to your son?
Re: I know better, always have! LSpr11: In my court order I have it stated that he is not to call at unreasonable times unless it is an emergency. I also have in there a no shack up clause which means that no person of the opposite sex can stay the night from 9pm till 7am while you have possession of the children. It's just the day time I worry about now with my kids being around her!!!!
Don't answer the phone any more. You don't have to legally. tell him you will have your son call him when he wants to talk to him. That is what I am doing now. It makes him VERY mad but I have to do this for me to be able to gather my strength together for each day!
Re: I know better, always have! faraday: [quote author=Feel link=topic=36536.msg388914#msg388914 date=1161618335">
B.S., I was tucked away in the NM arms...not calling you buddy....
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Honey- you are a trip :D lmao at that comment- he is being a shit- which you knew anyway- but you are doing great and can only do the things you think are right
And if he keeps it up then the court will give you sole custody and then that would serve him right wouldn't it?
Easier said than done I know, but try to not let him get to you- he wants to get under your skin- don't let him
Go snuggle with NM ;)
Re: I know better, always have! Feel: The funny thing is that on Saturday he went with the one from work with the daughter same age as my son to the farm... they have play stuff there and all and then I felt bad to go last week with the NM because I figured my X and I would go to bring our son, maybe we can just do something for our son to make him happy... but that thru me right off, adn the NM said I told you... you are being to nice.... don't bother doing or asking him to do anything!
Anyway, last night when he called and was curding me all kinds... I told him that I was done feeling sorry for him not being in his son's life and that it was his problem and I won't worry about including him even in the smallest thing!
I ma tired of it. so I told him to that on Halloween, I would drive over to see his parents... HOLY SHIT, I don't have too, I just remembered that they are leaving for Vagas on the Sunday before Halloween! ...... lol oh well
It's crazy about him fighting me for joint, he talks about wanting to spend more time with T but instead he never does... unless his family is around...
Example... went to Niagra to meet up with some of us Ojarians... met great people! and I asked him to pick his son up at Italian school Saturday, well he never even showed up when I dropped T off at his parents, imagine if I left early for NIagra and did bring my son to school... good thing I kept him home ion the morning... not to mention I asked him to keep him an extra hour so I didn't haver to trouble my parents and he ends up droping him off on time at 5.00pm and then calls about 6.30pm at the grocery store telling me about the steaks being on sale! ::) like buddy couldn't you just keep your son for an extra hour...... >:(
SEE WHAT I MEAN?????????????????????????
