Re: What to do? td7629: It sounds like he is not taking you seriously when you try to talk to him. I would try telling him again that you really want to talk about the problems that the two of you are having and if he doesn't want to listen then tell him that he is leaving you no choice but to file for a separation. If this does not get his attention, I don't know what will. Hopefully, he will respond by agreeing to some sort of counseling. Sorry that you are going through this.
Re: What to do? jrios29:
Sometimes putting it right there on the table is what you need to do to make someone else listen.
It sounds like he dosent think there is a problem, and until you make him see that there is a problem, it will never change.
No matter whether you stay or go... you should get it all out and give him a chance to respond. Maybe he will change his mind about counselling if he sees that you ARE leaving.
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Exactly! He needs to know how you feel, even if he doesn't want to hear it! There's a time for diplomacy and a time for action. It sounds like diplomacy is dead, so you need to take action. I can imagine that ur pregnant and scared, because u depend on him financially. You are stronger than u think! You will be able to pull through this, with or without him! (But hopefully with him! ;) )
Let him know exactly how you feel, and demand, do not ask, DEMAND he tells you how he feels and why. Tell him you want to make him happy, but u can't do anything without knowing what to do!
Best wishes to you, sweetie!
