Re: 7 years and told i'm not to blame... allmusic76: See that's awesome. That sounds like it was a more natural process. I don't want to sound evil or anything, but realistically... some relationships end. It just happens. It's a lot better for everyone when things can end with some nice degree of closure. Maybe it isn't mutual, but it's nice to know that you can grieve with some degree of satisfaction.
Maybe we learn something about ourselves " Next time, I need to be better about this...."
Maybe we learn something about trusting others " I need to watch out better for people like this...."
Maybe we just gain experience in a relationship.
Re: 7 years and told i'm not to blame... surprised: allmusic,
Yes you're right, some things are not forever. I do still hope that we can reconcile one day, but I recognize that today is not that day. We both need time to grow as separate people and maybe once we've done that, we'll find each other again. Only time will tell.
Re: 7 years and told i'm not to blame... Mo: Things change. People grow apart. You hear those sayings and others that are so corny but...it is simply just the truth. If it hadn't happened now, something else may have triggered it down the road. You don't know. If you can accept that fate would have sent the hammer to the trigger at any rate, maybe you can feel slightly better.
Re: 7 years and told i'm not to blame... allmusic76: Reconciliation is a beautiful concept. So i will ask this...
How do you reconcile with someone who refuses to tell you what you have done? How do you make amends for something that you are unaware of?
Re: 7 years and told i'm not to blame... chum: I don't care what we call it...there is no need to string a person along especially a person you care for
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