Impatient allilm: In general I'm not the most patient person. I get anxious for things to hurry along. I remember when I was dating the stbx, I was anxious for the wedding, then buying the first house and then having a baby. And now I'm anxious to undo those first two things. Waiting to get a bite on selling the house. Once that happens, everything else can follow from there. I'm also anxious to find a new job in the town where I now live. I'm too impatient in waiting to get to the life I'm working towards.
Re: Impatient JNA: So "Relax" a little bit...
All good things come with time
Don't stress yourself out over it just let things unfold as they will...
In Time
You cannot "Control" time or people so save your health and be more laid back...
IMO
JNA
Re: Impatient flizmo_kid: Hi Alli, I agree with the below -- this is not a race to complete in the fastest time possible -- Taking the high road, slow, methodical.. that will make the result the best possible outcome... having the process hurry along could make it worse in the long run
Re: Impatient allilm: Yes, logically I know I have no control over it and try my best to not let it stress me out. And funny thing is, I could care less how long the actual divorce takes. I just want to get our finances and everything like that separated and sorted out. We've been very amicable, so there's no question about who gets what, just about when we'll be able to finally do it, after the house sells. Because of our daughter, we'll never be completely out of touch from each other, but for some reason, the financial matters being separate is what I think will make me finally feel free of him. And part of that stems from having had to take responsibility for it all over the 10 years we've been together. I'm ready to only be responsible for me and my daughter.
Re: Impatient drowned: I know this sort of thing can try on ones patience for sure!
Time seems to be the answer for all in life, it's having to wait that can drive you bananas sometimes...
