Had a realization last night brielle123: I am attracted to men that intimidate me. WTF....why ???? That makes absolutely no sense. Let me clarify "intimidate" - I really just mean men that are "too cool" for me, for lack of better words.
I was thinking last night about the different men that I have dated in my life, and it seemed that every one of them made me nervous and question the qualities within myself in the beginning. I am so terrified of rejection, so I also think that maybe any man that I am interested in is going to intimidate me in the beginning...I just don't know.
Is there any way to change this attraction? Does this just all stem from my own self doubt?
Any advice would sure be appreciated :)!!
Re: Had a realization last night pluscachange: Are you trying to ask me out here in a subtle way or something?
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Re: Had a realization last night brielle123: ;D
Re: Had a realization last night drowned: Dating is intimidating whether a person is percieved to be cool or not....right? I mean really, why would you feel inferior and question your own self because someone comes off as being "too cool"? Everyone has who they are attracted to and the nerves will always come with anyone you are attracted to whether they are cool or not....make sense? :-\
....if it doesn't flow naturally in conversation or whatever else then maybe they are intimidated by you, you just may be too cool for them :)
