Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. pluscachange: [quote author=flyaway link=topic=36588.msg389596#msg389596 date=1161702367">
whoa! pac. :P double think?? ok. help me out here. I'm just thinking this scenario in my head:
I don't really think I'm "all that" personally. However, if I'm open to having a physical relationship with someone, I'm going to send signals to that end. If I'm not, they'll be just as plain.
What I mean by my earlier comment is: when girls make up their mind that they want sex and send signals....you'd be hard-pressed to find a man that would turn that down. (in my experience)
OTOH, if a man wants sex.....and sends those signals....the reverse cannot be said about a woman and her openess to taking it to that level.
That's what I meant. I guess I should have typed it out long in the first place. :)
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That makes more sense to me. Though I've turned down my fair share of women "sending signals" in the past.
Unfortunately it just makes them send the signal harder. heh
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. masterlow: [quote author=jetguy link=topic=36588.msg389598#msg389598 date=1161702517">
masterlow,
Personally I wouldn't want to know who my ex was doing. And if she felt the need to fill me in I'd change the topic and say that our personal lives are off limits.
JR
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I know she is seeing someone. I found that one out on my own when I ran into them together. I also know that she would not see someone for this long (almost 2 months) without the relationship becoming sexual.
She doesn't tell me they have sex...I just know they do.
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. 2be: [quote author=masterlow link=topic=36588.msg389626#msg389626 date=1161703649">
[quote author=jetguy link=topic=36588.msg389598#msg389598 date=1161702517">
masterlow,
Personally I wouldn't want to know who my ex was doing. And if she felt the need to fill me in I'd change the topic and say that our personal lives are off limits.
JR
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I know she is seeing someone. I found that one out on my own when I ran into them together. I also know that she would not see someone for this long (almost 2 months) without the relationship becoming sexual.
She doesn't tell me they have sex...I just know they do.
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This isn't about sex. This is about you not being able to move on with your own life. Honestly, 3 months out it was still tough for me too so I understand. But in order to get your life on the right track you need to stop worrying and caring about her and who she's with because it doesn't have anything to do with you anymore.
Any relationship you get into right now is just going to hurt the new woman because all you care about is hurting or comparing or competing with your X.
Sorry, but that's my take on it.
Oh, and I want 9 months without sex BEFORE we even split, so it was a while. :D
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. darkrose: [quote author=masterlow link=topic=36588.msg389577#msg389577 date=1161701535"> Why do I feel like girls have it so much easier when it comes to finding a sex partner?
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Because they control the nookie because men aren't all that picky when the real urges start up..
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. pluscachange: [quote author=darkrose link=topic=36588.msg389708#msg389708 date=1161707866">
[quote author=masterlow link=topic=36588.msg389577#msg389577 date=1161701535"> Why do I feel like girls have it so much easier when it comes to finding a sex partner?
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Because they control the nookie because men aren't all that picky when the real urges start up..
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Actually I disagree with the first statement.
It takes two to have "nookie".
Guys need to stop underrating their sexuality and making it subordinate to women's sexuality. We're equals, start acting like it, I say.
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