Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. jetguy: masterlow,
Personally I wouldn't want to know who my ex was doing. And if she felt the need to fill me in I'd change the topic and say that our personal lives are off limits.
JR
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. pluscachange: [quote"> Why do I feel like girls have it so much easier when it comes to finding a sex partner?[/quote">
Because men act like fools and act like their sexuality is cheaper than a woman's sexuality.
If men held their "package" in as much esteem as many women hold theirs, the issue would disappear.
Truth of the matter is, if you have self respect and don't exude the "I'll screw anything in a skirt" aura, you will stop having to worry about attracting women, it will just happen naturally.
Not saying that this is what you're doing, by the way, I'm just speaking generally about guys. :)
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. brielle123: I relate to that. I am about 99% positive that my stbxh doesn't have anyone else....YET....but I feel the need to hurry up and find someone before he does, ya know?
I miss sex too. And kissing, touching, hugging, holding, etc., etc. I am also almost at the three month mark....I calculated it the other day (you can tell I am bored ::) ) I haven't gone this long in almost eleven years. It's kinda unbearable, oh well....we'll all make it through. It'll happen again.
And yeah, girls may have it easier finding someone to sleep with....but that doesn't mean that we want to sleep with just anything. As hard as it is to do, I am holding out for someone special. Awwwwww....... :P
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. pluscachange: [quote author=flyaway link=topic=36588.msg389596#msg389596 date=1161702367">
whoa! pac. :P double think?? ok. help me out here. I'm just thinking this scenario in my head:
I don't really think I'm "all that" personally. However, if I'm open to having a physical relationship with someone, I'm going to send signals to that end. If I'm not, they'll be just as plain.
What I mean by my earlier comment is: when girls make up their mind that they want sex and send signals....you'd be hard-pressed to find a man that would turn that down. (in my experience)
OTOH, if a man wants sex.....and sends those signals....the reverse cannot be said about a woman and her openess to taking it to that level.
That's what I meant. I guess I should have typed it out long in the first place. :)
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That makes more sense to me. Though I've turned down my fair share of women "sending signals" in the past.
Unfortunately it just makes them send the signal harder. heh
Re: I'm jelaous that my Ex is getting some and I'm not. masterlow: [quote author=jetguy link=topic=36588.msg389598#msg389598 date=1161702517">
masterlow,
Personally I wouldn't want to know who my ex was doing. And if she felt the need to fill me in I'd change the topic and say that our personal lives are off limits.
JR
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I know she is seeing someone. I found that one out on my own when I ran into them together. I also know that she would not see someone for this long (almost 2 months) without the relationship becoming sexual.
She doesn't tell me they have sex...I just know they do.
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