Re: Why? Melbel: While I am not going to say she isn't your friend....I am going to say she doesn't feel the same way you feel. This relationship seems VERY one sided! When you put something into a relationship it seems to me that you should get someting back. I don't think that is happening here!
I also don't like who you said she doesn't like to wait alone. It's like you are to drop everything and jump beacuse she said too...not healthy.
I would not worry so much it's been 24 hours but worry about the road this relationship is taking. I think NOW might be a good time to pull back a little a look at what is going on around you.
Re: Why? yella: I agree with 2be. From what I've read, you've given WAY too much, so she got used to that. I mean, why bother giving anything back if you're going to give and ask for nothing in return?
I'd do what you can to break from this. It's not good for you, and you're wasting your good qualities on someone who isn't worth it. It's best to give this to someone more deserving.
I've been where you are, and it's hell, but it feels so much better when you make that break. ;)
Re: Why? tryingtogetyouback: She replied me and I heard one of her friends had passed on few days back. She says she's sad. I'm sad for her too.
Before the accident I was already planning on treating her to a nice dinner and wine on christmas eve and getting her a christmas present. I know it's still early but I really wanna make it a perfect one so I was going to try out some of the nice places myself first before bringing her there. I'm not a well off or rich person so I do have to save up some money in order to visit these places. Now I don't know if I am still able to do so as I owe my friends money and I have to return it them as soon as possible. I'm so dead broke right now until my next pay. I've always tell myself that it is ok even if she does not reciprocate my love or kindness to her but as long as we're good friends I'll be fine but each time she ignored my text message or calls I'll be very worried that she's angry or can't be bothered with me.
Is it that I don't love her enough to accept who she really is? I don't know if that is how she treat her friends as well or I'm the "special" one. Previously we had a relationship together and it failed because I think it was mainly my fault and ever since she left I regretted so much to an extend that I wanted to end my life, but thankfully my friends were there to support me through. I told her before and she says it wasn't entirely my fault as both of us had a part to play in the relationship and we both had our issues to overcome. Now that we're good friends again I really want to make it up to the times when I wasn't good enough for her. Even if she is not with me it's alright I just want her to be happy with her life but at the same time I'm always having the thought that she is either angry with me/can't be bothered when she didn't reply my text messages whenever I'm down/sad/ask her out. I don't know if it's me or her. I'm getting paranoid now. :( I've really tried so hard to please her I seriously did. I wanted her to have the best and I've always looked up to her as someone whom I dearly respect and love.
Re: Why? Emily: hm, maybe you once hurted her alot and now its all coming back to you. Don't mess with women man, they can do things to mess it up without you knowing it. It seems so obvious that it is a one sided thing. I suggest you to have a open talk with her and tell her how you feel instead of feeling paranoid, angry, etc. without her knowing.
I don't know your history relationship with her but maybe she is taking revenge? I don't want to give any false information but I'm a woman too so if my ex ever comes back to me, I probably would do the same to make him piss just for revenge.
Sorry to freak you out. But for your own sake, you need to find out from her why she is doing this to you. It doesn't seems like a normal relationship if that's what you expect to be. A friendship is very different though.
Re: Why? kN3eLb4Z0d: [quote author=Emily link=topic=36593.msg397238#msg397238 date=1162604815">
hm, maybe you once hurted her alot and now its all coming back to you. Don't mess with women man, they can do things to mess it up without you knowing it. It seems so obvious that it is a one sided thing. I suggest you to have a open talk with her and tell her how you feel instead of feeling paranoid, angry, etc. without her knowing.
I don't know your history relationship with her but maybe she is taking revenge? I don't want to give any false information but I'm a woman too so if my ex ever comes back to me, I probably would do the same to make him piss just for revenge.
Sorry to freak you out. But for your own sake, you need to find out from her why she is doing this to you. It doesn't seems like a normal relationship if that's what you expect to be. A friendship is very different though.
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