Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. masterlow: Meet a girl for the first time, have some nice conversation, feel that twinge of attraction, get the number, call and setup that date.
Sounds like the normal process, right?
In my world, I'm finding it is not at all the way women want to operate.
The women I meet who seem interested in me are always not interested in going on real one-on-one dates. I have to casually run into them more than a few times before they feel like spending solo time with me.
How many times do you have to casually meet someone out before you are comfortable giong on a date?
It's like people are just not willing to go through the uncomfort of a first date.
Re: Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. tripny2k6: It's a change in the times my friend. Most of the gilrs that I have dated the last few years I have met out casually several times before anything was labeled "official." Just because you dont pick her up at her parents house with a dozen roses doesnt mean its not a first date.
Re: Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. kimberly: It could be a safety issue. It's risky going on a one to one date with someone you barely know. I need to converse for a while via internet or phone to get a better feel for the person ya know? Paul Bernardo seemed like a normal guy too.
Re: Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. fly: I am like this with men. I perfer to get to know men in a relaxed setting instead of " traditional date". I am not a traditional person, so get to know me where I am comfy. ;D
Re: Cold dating doesn't seem to happen in my world. toolate: [quote author=fly link=topic=36601.msg390158#msg390158 date=1161728994">
I am like this with men. I perfer to get to know men in a relaxed setting instead of " traditional date". I am not a traditional person, so get to know me where I am comfy. ;D
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Traditional date = uncomfortable conversation, a flashback to an uncomfortable times (and please, oh god, is he going to expect a kiss at the front door)
I'm with you - meet me in a comfortable setting and we bypass the weather chit chat...
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