Supposed "friends" 2be: I don't need them... these shallow, self-absorbed, pretentious women who at one time (when it was convenient) called me a friend. Worse yet, I work with them. And now they've become so two-faced. One flat out has admitted that she doesn't like my girlfriend or myself and is just business cordial to us... which is fine. But the other one... the office-mate of the "hater" is nice to my face and pretends like everything is fine, but then posts not-so-subtle comments on the "hatas" MySpace page.
Like I can't read it? Is she so effing dumb that she doesn't realize how obvious she is being? I'm not going to raise a ruckus just to keep office gossip and office relations as they are. It just pisses me off.
Personally, I feel like it is because I chose to date my girlfriend instead of these two. Well, they both proved exactly what my gut was telling me... the shallowness just astounds me.
Re: Supposed "friends" fly: Hey, I hear ya.
I met this guy and he has some potential and now my best friend doesn't speak to me!!! and actually hit on him.
I am heart broken that someone who I cherished and thought was a friend could do this. Hater..
Re: Supposed "friends" Melbel: Well 2be just be thankful you are seeing them for who and what they really are without having dated them! I would count myself lucky!
When people piss me off/upset me I live by one Golden Rule~ Kill them with kindness! Bring muffins and coffee into work, tell them they look nice even pop in to say HI! No way is some little punk going to mess with me but I hate conflict. After awhile their b*tchy little attitudes being to change once they see they aren't getting the response out of me they wanted!
Melissa
Re: Supposed "friends" 2be: I am VERY thankful I never pursued either one of them when I had the chance. One reminds me too much of my ex wife and the other is the epitome of "sorority girl blonde." I will keep things friendly with them because I am a mature adult. I guess I just am very disappointed, and what makes me most angry is that they treat my g/f worse than me. They're focusing their jealousy on her because she "won" me. Whatever... I just could see through them and tell what kind of people they really were, and I chose to pursue the mature, truly beautiful, intelligent woman.
Oh well, whatever. I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around so I know it's just around the corner for them.
What is even more amazing is that every tidbit of office gossip that goes around ends up on one of their MySpace pages. If I really wanted to get them in trouble, all I'd have to do is send the "higher ups" those pages, and let them know how much time these two "ladies" spend there.
