OMG...ex broke up with OW LostTeacher: so...the last few weeks, i have been getting a few more emails from my ex. mostly just little things...asking a few questions, seeing how i was.
today got a a bit more. talked a bit about christmas, about our dog....
then he said i should see her sometime. i said i would love to, but how would that work? he said "well, you could come by sometime."
i was like..."i don't think so....i think it would be weird to come over there with this situaiton." he told me not to worry, no one was there...but if i was still feeling weird about it, we could meet up somewhere else.
i really was wheeling from this. plus, he was talking about our wedding pictures, and few other things.
so tonite, i went to a epicure party (like pampered chef, but mainly about spices), and it was being thrown by his best friend's wife. we are still pretty good friends. my best friend was the one hosting the party. she was asking me what was going on, and while we were taking, the wife came down and asked who we were talking about. i said the ex. she got a weird look on her face. i asked if something was going on that i didn't know about.
she said that they had seperated....and she had moved out!!!!!
so....now that i know this information.....i don't know what to do. i am in a total bind. i don't think that anything would really happen, but now.....what....the grass wasn't so green on the other side, and now he's lonely??? well, guess what?!?! i've been feeling this way for 2 f**king years!!
sorry a bit long. just slightly rattled....and not sure what to feel, how much to read into things....anything.
LT
Re: OMG...ex broke up with OW big_daddy: Unless you are really truly willing to try again and put your heart out there to be stomped on again (which of course may or may not happen)...
I would recommend simply taking some comfort in knowing that he is finally going to have to deal with at least some of what you had to deal with. He is probably coming to you, to stave off that hurt and those feelings...the truth and intent behind even masked attempts at winning you back could be genuine...but they could be a band-aid, and even he may not realize that right now.
Re: OMG...ex broke up with OW MadorSad: Karma is a bitch....... Let him suffer ALONE he did not help you why would you even think about it 8)
Re: OMG...ex broke up with OW alonewith2: [quote author=MadorSad link=topic=37004.msg396696#msg396696 date=1162567645">
Karma is a bitch....... Let him suffer ALONE he did not help you why would you even think about it 8)
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I second that!!
Re: OMG...ex broke up with OW LostTeacher: it is really, really, really, really, really, really what i want to do.
but i feel almost obsessive about this guy. it's crazy that he can still have this kind of effect on me after all this time. i mean, in 3 days, it's been 2 years since we seperated. 2 years!! that's forever ago.
i am trying to leave it. i almost need to turn my phone off, and my computer off so i am not tempted to do anything.
i hate fridays with nothing to do. i end up doing such stupid sh*t!
LT
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