Re: To the newbies and ojarians...and those in the middle Clarice35: .
Re: To the newbies and ojarians...and those in the middle katelyn: LOL, Tar.. you're a bitch and I love it.
I think you should at least marginally be happy on your own, like yourself, exude somewhat of a stable demeanor. But yeah, meeting that next person definately propells the healing process I would imagine. It's fulfilling. Of course you want someone to share your life with, NMT... all I can say is hang in there. You will find her. It may not look like it now but it will happen. As far as your other 'issues'.... all I can do is tell you what helped me. Books, knowledge, information, introspect, and application of said information. I'd say only in the last couple months have I really seen success - after 2 years of blood sweat and tears. But the payoff, when it finally comes, is divine. Keep on.
Re: To the newbies and ojarians...and those in the middle no more tears: ummm........
Re: To the newbies and ojarians...and those in the middle no more tears: I guess some people are still upset with my post ...which was last week..and is now locked and dead. I posted on here again the other nite because i was feeling rather sh!tty and thought i would at least get a few good responses. Here is quotes from my whole 11 responses..........
[quote"> [quote author=katelyn link=topic=37011.msg397313#msg397313 date=1162613157">
LOL, Tar.. you're a bitch and I love it.
[quote"> [quote author=Clarice link=topic=37011.msg397273#msg397273 date=1162608796">
Not sure if i worded that right, im tired and stuff
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[quote"> [quote author=Tarheel link=topic=37011.msg397263#msg397263 date=1162607753">
I'm still waiting for the moron list, personally.
[quote"> [quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=37011.msg397223#msg397223 date=1162600015">
I'd rather talk about bunnies all day. ;D
[quote"> [quote author=idocsteve link=topic=37011.msg397220#msg397220 date=1162599738">
[quote author=Whirlpool link=topic=37011.msg397182#msg397182 date=1162594221">
I suggest you delete the first paragraph,
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[quote author=Whirlpool link=topic=37011.msg397182#msg397182 date=1162594221">
Just delete your first paragraph and I am sure many would be happy to help you.
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Whirlpool, he didn't listen to you the first time you said it, so I don't think he's going to listen to it the second time around...
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[quote"> [quote author=big_daddy link=topic=37011.msg396670#msg396670 date=1162566589">
You get what you give.
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[quote"> [quote author=Smiley link=topic=37011.msg396648#msg396648 date=1162564513">
I don't think it was fair for you to post what you did, but you did it. It is what it is. Now you look for support.
[quote"> [quote author=Smiley link=topic=37011.msg396648#msg396648 date=1162564513">
I'm sure that once this all passes, you'll get the support you need, but you have to work with us, and not against us, to get it.
[quote"> [quote author=Whirlpool link=topic=37011.msg396604#msg396604 date=1162554163">
Jesus man what are you thinking? Stop throwing the people on this site under a bus and maybe you will get some support. I suggest you delete the first paragraph, replace it with "I regret what happened in prior thread and would like to start fresh" and go from there. Do that and I will delete this post as well.
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Hmmm let me tell you...awesome advice and thanks for that ojar shoulder . BTW the oh so hilarious person idocsteve who keeps responding to my posts with a pic of a crying baby...real class act . Great job. I just hope u dont do that to newbies....cuz u may have 1 hunt ur ass down and make u cry like a b!tch...never know kharma is funny like that. But anyways if nothing at all i think my post last week which turned into a soap opera was validated by the currents group of Morons who frequent this site today. I know 1 day i will be happy again...and so will you. Or for some of you by the lack of intelligence or compassion you display so proudly in ur responses ..ummmmmm.....ur really single...who wouldve thought.
Re: To the newbies and ojarians...and those in the middle wtfjusthappenned: Well, after reading this last response, I feel like I have to reply NMT. Dude....don't take your sh*t out on people here! There are more people here that give a sh*t about your miserable life than you may know personally! I am just guessing here!!! You seem to look at a PORTION of what people are saying here, ( and probably in your real life ), then you take it out of context, to help you feel angry? Bro, I don't know your story, but if there was any reason to feel happy and content in life, we would NOT BE HERE!!!
So to sum up....man up or shut up! And by man up I mean, listen, grow, and mature! There is always two people in any relationship, whether it succeeds or fails......what was your part?.......and if you do really want to figure everything out that went wrong......then do it, look at yourself first. You can't sit there and feel sorry for yourself and then when it hits you take it out on people here! So, like I told a few people in the last few days, F&CK OFF!!!!! AND GET OVER YOURSELF!
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