Re: I've read countless stories Gren: Good for you, man - my wife outright rejected counselling.
Re: I've read countless stories Spike: Cringe, dude. If it feels like a line, looks like a line and smells like a line, RUN!!!! Man, I was so f*cked over by my cheating wife, she gave me all the crap, I'm soory, I've changed, I love you, it's all bullsh*t!!! If she loved you, she wouldn't have cheated, period!!!
Re: I've read countless stories Crystal_Blue_024: My ex came back 3 months later begging and begging me for another chance, carrying on and on about how she had changed and she realized she made a huge mistake, and blah blah blah... It lasted 9 days and it was back to the same old BS, so I told her to go kick rocks... That was 2 months ago... Would NEVER try things again...
Re: I've read countless stories lnlsban: If you can deal with what happened to get you 2 to this point, and you both truly want to work it out then I say go for it (with counseling). For me, since she is not sorry for any of the 4 affairs I would rather burn in Hell than spend another night with her.
My brother and His wife were able to reconcile after their affairs and they are still married. I think it is now 5 years. So it truly is possible
Re: I've read countless stories 2be: I think it IS possible to change and maybe she can and will prove to you. You just have to look deep inside yourself and see if you can TRULY accept and forgive her. I've said this a bunch of times here, but if you can't truly forgive her and move on, then you're bound for destruction.
When my X cheated on me the first time, I forgave her and we moved on... but it destroyed me really and I never expressed that to her. My fault was burying the pain and betrayal instead of working on it... so at that exact point, our relationship was doomed. We lasted another 4 years before she cheated again. And THAT is when I called it quits and haven't looked back since.
Be strong. If you wish to continue, I would suggest "starting over" and begin "dating" again in order to build back that trust. Only time will tell if she has changed her tune... and you very well might get burned again.
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