When you feel like you want to give up! Feel: I was supposed to go to court this month for more access for my EX...
My lawyer calls (assistant) and asks " so how has access been" well lets see... he's dropped him off on his sleepover nights so he can be fresh the next morning for hockey, or because he needs to go out or he just isn't there when I drop my son off on his days,.... he passes out from all the drinking and the harrassing phones calls that have been going on with my son in his care.
THis is about my son's best interest right, so why do I have to agree to more access, isn't what he has enough...
Every Wednesday overnight, alternating Saturday's from 11am to 11am Sunday and and the other saturday from 11-5... he sees him every week 2x a week and everytime he comes home to me he has been reemed about the NM and that mommy isn't supposed to be with him. He puts things in my sons head, he comes home telling me he hates P, when he usually runs to the house asking if he is there and G has the nerve to fight me on more access...
So with everything I have said here and the more that I said to my lawyer still she says "well why can't we give G more access" Who the fuck are you kidding... Not only have I been betrayed by my husband beeten up with name calling and being put in a postion that I can't afford, I have my lawyer not listening to me... I asked the assistant if she had kids... she said no, so therefore you wouldn't know the torture my son is going thru everytime he comes home to me and these things take place infront of him>
I was told to keep documentation of the access, I have called the police on numerous occasions, I have him recorded with what he says to me and how he treats me infront of my son! I have been told off from the OW... and being that I did nothing I still ahve to give in to G...
Who makes him GOD, who has the justice here? Why do I have to feel my lawyer is on his side... Is she not supposed to fight for what I want, especially being that I have done above and beyond my call as a mother and access for G...
Well I gave her a few words and told her that I pay her to work for me and if she wants to fight for me then she better do it or I will thro eveything up in the air and hire someone who wants to work for me!
I am so upset :'( all night... for G to always get what he wants even after I was told that if I keep a long of what takes place it would help me! Now I am a mess, I am affraid, don't know if I am coming or going... I am broke and I struggle to support myself and my son! :'(
I thought I was being the strong one. I didn't realize I'd have to post like this again.... help, for words of incouragement!
Re: When you feel like you want to give up! Spike: Hey, Feel. You ARE the strong one, and you know it. Just keep the fight up, do what's best for your son. Think of it this way, there is a reason they say never get between a momma bear and her cubs. Note momma bear, not papa bear. Put on the nasty, honey, it's time to go for his balls.
Re: When you feel like you want to give up! CDNgurl: Feel - hugs!! I know how much this is hurting you. It's so frustrating!!
What kind of access is G asking for?
This should be a negotiation process....
Re: When you feel like you want to give up! Feel: [quote author=CDNgurl link=topic=37018.msg396710#msg396710 date=1162568644">
Feel - hugs!! I know how much this is hurting you. It's so frustrating!!
What kind of access is G asking for?
This should be a negotiation process....
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Thanks spike your right!
CND- your right should be negotiation, but it seems that I am not negotiating anything...
He is asking to keep the Saturday from 11-5, every wednesday over night and every other weekend from Friday to Sunday till 11am or 6pm.
I offered... everyother weekend, like he asked, taking back my overnight wednesdays but he can still see him from after daycare until 7.30-8pm and I want back the Saturday from 11-5pm...
I actually think he has enough... it's horrible what my son comes back and says to me...
I got into a huge argument with him yesturday adn said if it's about P, I'll stop seeing him just so you can leave me alone... I yelled and said menawhile you will continue to harrass me and enjoy your side kick while I have to be unhappy, is that what you want...... ?
He starts yelling and freaking out like I never heard before and says, I love you don't you get it, you need to be with me, I want to see my son more, I want this all to end.... I say if that is the case why did you have her text me all those things about you and her adn why are you never available to us when needed and why does your son have to suffer listening to you call P a petophile and pervert and asshole and all other kinds of things and on top of that listen to the way you treat me... that isn't a man who loves someone....!
You don't have any consistency accept with your drinking!
I am a mess!
Re: When you feel like you want to give up! Spike: Ofcource I'm right!!! I'm always right!!!!
sept when I'm wrong, LOL
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