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Re: Here is my New Personals Ad Ojar /Ojaroo Women ! WhiskeyGirl: Okay so I don't have access to the actual ad.....but I just don't get why so many women get all bent out of shape whenever freckles posts what HE wants from a woman in a relationship.
And why on earth would anyone suggest he take out this part and not say that part, etc, etc.......he is being HONEST! That what he wants....take it or leave it.....why wouldn't he put it out there? Should he pretend he has a more liberal, modern outlook on relationships until he sucks some girl in and then spring in on her that her place is in the home making babies?
Why does this bother people so much? He's not telling us all that that is OUR place....he is stating what HE wants. Different strokes for different folks......and I really don't think a woman has to be "insane" to want to be a housewife and stay home taking care of her children and her home while her husband pays the bills.....
It really is a sad thing that now, not only have traditional values in the home become an anomaly....but now the ones who still keep to these values are considered insane.
Yes, I realize freckles has a way with words at times....but the few quotes I see on this thread from his ad are not at all offensive....not until some people took it upon themselves to reword the whole thing to their liking did it become offensive and rude.
Anyway...I just find it strnage that so many get all riled up about this.....why does it bother you so much? Who cares? If thats what feckles wants then let him go and find it in peace....stop telling him what he should want....he's pretty specific there...I think he knows what he wants ::)
Re: Here is my New Personals Ad Ojar /Ojaroo Women ! chaotic: [quote author=WG link=topic=37038.msg401575#msg401575 date=1163439217">
Okay so I don't have access to the actual ad.....but I just don't get why so many women get all bent out of shape whenever freckles posts what HE wants from a woman in a relationship.
And why on earth would anyone suggest he take out this part and not say that part, etc, etc.......he is being HONEST! That what he wants....take it or leave it.....why wouldn't he put it out there? Should he pretend he has a more liberal, modern outlook on relationships until he sucks some girl in and then spring in on her that her place is in the home making babies?
Why does this bother people so much? He's not telling us all that that is OUR place....he is stating what HE wants. Different strokes for different folks......and I really don't think a woman has to be "insane" to want to be a housewife and stay home taking care of her children and her home while her husband pays the bills.....
It really is a sad thing that now, not only have traditional values in the home become an anomaly....but now the ones who still keep to these values are considered insane.
Yes, I realize freckles has a way with words at times....but the few quotes I see on this thread from his ad are not at all offensive....not until some people took it upon themselves to reword the whole thing to their liking did it become offensive and rude.
Anyway...I just find it strnage that so many get all riled up about this.....why does it bother you so much? Who cares? If thats what feckles wants then let him go and find it in peace....stop telling him what he should want....he's pretty specific there...I think he knows what he wants ::)
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I dont think anyone is offended with his profile or telling him that he should remove things.  Just pointing out that some of the responses he recieved are likely poking fun at his profile or eliciting the responses due to some of the statements he makes.  And some of the statements he has made, make him sound a bit ignorant.

If his profile accurately represents his wishes, then great, but he should not be suprised about that type of responses he gets. 

Especially, when there are statements like:
[quote"> My Town seems to be 70 to 80 percent Spanish(I am White)
(There is a Spanish Lady that seems to like me,But I am hoping for a White Lady as I don't understand Spanish)
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Just because you are from a different ethnicity does not mean you dont speak English.  I mean, I am part Taiwanese, that does not mean that I do not have a strong grasp of the English language.  If you are not attracted to a race, fine, but dont sound ignorant about it.


Re: Here is my New Personals Ad Ojar /Ojaroo Women ! Cherry: I have to back you on that one Chaotic.  I think it is his lack of anything resembling tact that makes most respond like they do to him.
Re: Here is my New Personals Ad Ojar /Ojaroo Women ! WhiskeyGirl: Heres an example of what I don't get.....

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Maybe update what you are looking for to a woman that is successful outside the home and has a strong will or sense of adventure. 

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Why on earth would he update his profile to completely lie about what he is looking for?? He DOESN"T want her to work outside the home ...and from the sounds of it strong willed and adventurous is out too.....he WANTS a meek and "tame" housewife!! Maybe thats not very popular anymore but its what he wants....why tell him to lie about it? Its not wrong...its just different....perhaps a little outdated ::)

My girlfriend sent me this as a joke...because I am planning on giving "housewifing" a try after this baby is born ;)....I thought it would lighten things up in here ;D  I know I laughed my ass off



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Re: Here is my New Personals Ad Ojar /Ojaroo Women ! Freckles: [quote author=WG link=topic=37038.msg401861#msg401861 date=1163479934">
Heres an example of what I don't get.....

[quote author=chaotic link=topic=37038.msg399486#msg399486 date=1163007756">
Maybe update what you are looking for to a woman that is successful outside the home and has a strong will or sense of adventure. 

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Why on earth would he update his profile to completely lie about what he is looking for?? He DOESN"T want her to work outside the home ...and from the sounds of it strong willed and adventurous is out too.....he WANTS a meek and "tame" housewife!! Maybe thats not very popular anymore but its what he wants....why tell him to lie about it? Its not wrong...its just different....perhaps a little outdated ::)

My girlfriend sent me this as a joke...because I am planning on giving "housewifing" a try after this baby is born ;)....I thought it would lighten things up in here ;D  I know I laughed my ass off



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That newspaper story has it exactly.
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