I'm so upset...what do I do? artickittycat: I got an email from my stbx, first time I have received any communication from him in a month, saying that I can call the babies at his mom's house over the weekend...he's taking the OW to the CMA's in Nashville. Won't be back until Tuesday. He's never taken me anywhere like that, a month ago he took her to an Alabama game...we never went anywhere or did anything...not that I didn't want to, I was always up to go do whatever. All of a sudden he's able to do all kinds of things. I'm very angry... and green with jealousy...I feel sick to my stomach. I know when I call the babies tonight he'll get on the phone and want to brag about his trip with his girlfriend...I so don't want to hear it. Besides the only reason I'm still in NH is because I don't have a place to live down in 'Bama unless he's willing to move out of the house. He's being indecisive to be mean. He's trying to make it so hard for me to get back down there...I think he thinks I'll give up, but he's wrong. I don't want to talk to him tonight, and I really don't want to hear the OW voice when she (I know is going to) answers the phone. I have given this man ten years and two babies, and let my child call him daddy and this is what I get. And this is what my son gets after ten years. What the hell? All I can do is cry...I can't stop, thank God my son isn't here right now, I look and feel like hell warmed over. How can I get through this? I don't know what to do...
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? Bluewolf030: [quote author=artickittycat link=topic=37042.msg397191#msg397191 date=1162595153">
I got an email from my stbx, first time I have received any communication from him in a month, saying that I can call the babies at his mom's house over the weekend...he's taking the OW to the CMA's in Nashville. Won't be back until Tuesday. He's never taken me anywhere like that, a month ago he took her to an Alabama game...we never went anywhere or did anything...not that I didn't want to, I was always up to go do whatever. All of a sudden he's able to do all kinds of things. I'm very angry... and green with jealousy...I feel sick to my stomach. I know when I call the babies tonight he'll get on the phone and want to brag about his trip with his girlfriend...I so don't want to hear it. Besides the only reason I'm still in NH is because I don't have a place to live down in 'Bama unless he's willing to move out of the house. He's being indecisive to be mean. He's trying to make it so hard for me to get back down there...I think he thinks I'll give up, but he's wrong. I don't want to talk to him tonight, and I really don't want to hear the OW voice when she (I know is going to) answers the phone. I have given this man ten years and two babies, and let my child call him daddy and this is what I get. And this is what my son gets after ten years. What the hell? All I can do is cry...I can't stop, thank God my son isn't here right now, I look and feel like hell warmed over. How can I get through this? I don't know what to do...
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He's probably doing the rest of it to hurt you as well... Im sorry you have to go through this. My wife was vindictive like this the last time she left, did all kinds of things she normally wouldnt do and then would tell me about them just to get me going.
Be strong, even though i know its hard for you right now
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? loshyra: I agree with Bluewolf on this one... kinda sounds like he is trying to hurt you with a lot of this. My ex did this, my first ex (my kids dad) is still doing this kind of stuff to me.
Be strong, try, even though it is hard not to let him see how much it upsets you, because when you do, it makes it all worth it in his eyes.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? faraday: I agree, he is just being spiteful cause he knows it will hurt you- mine does it while i am still in the house with him- I am so sorry for your pain, I hope that you get to be with your babies soon
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? artickittycat: To top it all off his email said he was taking the babies to his mom's house I called every half hour for four hours, and still didn't get to talk to the babies. This is going to be a very long, long four days....I'm hurt, and very angry...I can't believe all this. I'm not that surprised, more surprised that it kicked my ass the way it did. But not letting me talk to the babies...that is wrong, I can't wait until I get my ass down there...
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