Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? jannette Garcia: Ok question, you mentioned he's in the house? Do you both own the house?? Because if you both do you are within your rights to live there whether he likes it or not! If I was you and the house was under both of your names I would definately show up and make his life a living hell!! It is your house and your kids! If he wants out, let him leave!
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? jannette Garcia: I think she mentioned they couldnt press charges because of the jurisdiction.....it sucks though! I would be so enraged!! ugh! >:(
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? smokin: i would like to see her whole version listed out. i dont know, maybe im wrong, but there seems to be something really big missing in this picture.......
if they moved to new hampshire, and he took them, if you had residency in new hampshire, then there SHOULD have been kidnapping across state lines brought up as a charge.
2nd, you lawyer says you need to get him to answer the phone? thats the lawyers job, and he could have it done tomorrow if he wanted to..
the judge is NOT going to not grant a phone call clause in there till you can get there.
3rd, you already uprooted your son once, so do it again. some states have a 6 month clause that states if you havent been there, you lose custody..........
so if you can, list out your whole thing from beggining to end..... thanks and good luck.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? The whole story included... artickittycat: Okay...I'm gonna have to do this in parts...so here's part one refer to post 2,3, ect.
OK...you asked for it....my story is long and if you want all the details so everyone can understand get comfortable pop some popcorn and a six pack...Here we go...
It all started in October 2005...we had big financial problem....huge financial problems. We lost our Explorer...we had gotten behind on the house, I had gotten fired from my position at a credit union. Because I had so many problems with my marriage and I couldn't shake it enough when I wasn't at work...it was bad. And the finances made it 100% worse. My mom and her husband bought their restaurant 3 years ago and asked us to come up, live there and manage and work it....Although I thought it was in our best interest, my husband decided he didn't want to do that. Leaving his family would just be too much...but when all these financial problems came to a head my husband asked me if we could still move up to NH and manage the restaurant. I told him I would have to ask my parents but I was sure they wouldn't turn me away...so we moved. We left the house, all the furniture, packed only what could go on the plane since we didn't have a vehicle. Left most of our stuff in AL.
So we got to NH, we worked and made alot of money paid off alot of bad debt, got the house caught up, financially we were set. But since everyone lived all together at the restaurant, my husband, me, our children and my mom and her husband in very tight living quarters, we all fought like cats and dogs...my mom and my husband never got along...ever. It was very stressful...I started seeing different signs something wasn't right in February. He was on the internet all the time, walking around talking on the phone all the time, something was wrong. I had a feeling he was planning something all this time beggin me to go back to AL, Brennen was in school, he liked it...we were making money but the restaurant was in a sale pending contract my mom and her husband got an offer on the place that they couldn't refuse and were planning to buy another business for us to manage. Any way, I made an appointment secretly to talk to a lawyer, so if my husband should up and leave the state with the babies, or if I found out plans that that was what he was planning to do, then I would know what to do, what my rights were. My NH lawyer said it's crucial that we are here for six months, after that it would be considered kidnapping as far as residency. I wasn't filing for divorce or anything just acquiring information...because I was scared. So my lawyer in NH said to not let him leave the restaurant with the babies unless I am with him, or my son.
