Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? Bluewolf030: [quote author=artickittycat link=topic=37042.msg397347#msg397347 date=1162623963">
But not letting me talk to the babies...that is wrong, I can't wait until I get my ass down there...
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That is wrong, you need to get yourself a lawyer. I am not sure how it works where you are but here in Canada you can get legal aid, if you can't afford a lawyer, to get proceedings started.
Keeping you from your children is wrong, and not allowing you to talk to them is very wrong. They need you... Especially if he is being vindictive and cruel to you, it kind of speaks as to where his mind is at the moment.
I wish you the best, if you need someone to vent to just pm me, Ive been through this crap before and I know how much it hurts.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? kimberly: Sounds like he is messing with your mind big time. A normal person would keep those trips private as to not throw salt on the wounds. He wants to make you green with envy. The best thing you could do is nothing at all! Say oh really that's nice, did you have good weather? (dripping with sweetness not sarcasm) that'll drive him nuts and make you feel like you're back in control. Two can play his cheesey little game.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? allmusic76: no offense torn, but let's avoid game playing. The point of being here is to help people get over a situation, not make it worse.
Cat, there really isn't a lot you can do in a situation like this.
Ignore his bragging about the new gf. It's crap. If you let it bother you, he'll keep doing it.
There isn't much you can do about all of the different things he is doing. You just have to let that roll off of you. It sucks... I know, but at the same time.... it's a good thing, because you can let that motivate you to get over it.
As far as the kids.... FIGHT for them.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? kimberly: Re read my post, how could being sweet natured and calm and asking how the weather was make things worse! Look, when I am replying to posts here I simply state what I would do , what I feel is best given the information the origional poster provides. What we don't need here is someone that takes things too literally and likes to disagree with others peoples input. (or do you only do this to me) ??? You pretty much gave her the same advice, you said ignore, I said be sweet and pleasant and don't be sarcastic.
My apologies to artickittycat, I don't mean to go off topic. I was trying to be helpful and sincere.
Re: I'm so upset...what do I do? smokin: i agree with torn...................
hes playing his little game, and in return, if she pretends its a game, and is the bigger person, then it will help her, cause when he sees it isnt affecting her anymore, he will quit doing it...........
fake it till ya make it, and if they are playing games, play them in return...
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