Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! allmusic76: hi alone... Im kinda in the same boat. Melissa was the queen of the unspoken word.
I know exactly what you are going through. It's a trust thing. I had a gf once who was literally a lie factory. I felt like they should have put her mouth in the circus to see the amazing lying woman.
Afterwards, I was the same way. I'd question everything anyone said.
It is a sucky habit, and it takes a while to get rid of. For me, it was just a matter of time.
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! allmusic76: i think defense mechanisms are 50/50... sure we may develop them in a manner based on what happened to us, however our coping mechanisms and mental status are also what determine how we form them
LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! Caramon29: YES liars are idiots that don't know how to behave. This is true about my soon to be ex...she says that she doesn't want another relationship once we are over, but her emails tell another story. For example, just this morning she sent him a letter saying that I was a liar and she couldn't understand why I told the kids about our divorce without her...I thought it was the right thing to do...she also mentioned that she misses him when going to bed, waking up and just about any other time she needs to miss him. I'm sure she is even texting him this minute bitching about me...hmmm...hard to swallow the truth when it slaps you in the face.
What am I supposed to do about this?
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! Gren: Rub your temples and take each blow as it comes.
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! allmusic76: my ex had a lot of contradictions. There were things she said at one point that completely contradicted something later. The problem was there was a lot of it. I think that's why i'm so confused about everything that she said.
