Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! Gren: [quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=37069.msg397649#msg397649 date=1162739585">
It's hard to just stop when it was something ingrained into me over the course of the past 7 years.
The guy I'm dating now catches me doing it all the time. I'm trying really hard not to, but it's like second nature. Hopefully, I can relearn how not to do it. :-\
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That's why I started this thread:
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Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! allmusic76: i think defense mechanisms are 50/50... sure we may develop them in a manner based on what happened to us, however our coping mechanisms and mental status are also what determine how we form them
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! alonewith2: [quote author=Gren link=topic=37069.msg397655#msg397655 date=1162741610">
[quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=37069.msg397649#msg397649 date=1162739585">
It's hard to just stop when it was something ingrained into me over the course of the past 7 years.
The guy I'm dating now catches me doing it all the time. I'm trying really hard not to, but it's like second nature. Hopefully, I can relearn how not to do it. :-\
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That's why I started this thread:
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Honestly, I was gonna post it there many times, but changed my mind before hitting the post button. I thought you were only looking for behaviour that has changed because something was said to youl sorry...
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! Gren: Nope - I meant every single thing your X said/ did whatever that has put us on the defensive that *everyone else* has to pay for now...
Re: LIES LIES LIES!!!! ALL LIES!!! allmusic76: at what point does a series of contradictions become a set of lies?
My ex was the queen of contradiction, however I'm not sure if it was just selfish convenience or actually lying... it's hard to tell.
Grr... she confuses me.
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