Re: I Love Him superwife: [quote author=tatteredandtorn link=topic=37506.msg403691#msg403691 date=1163735997">
How the hell do I let go, how do I make the memories stop, how do I make my heart let go?
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(SC b*tch slaps tnt)
How? I'll tell you how... go back and read about 3/3 of your posts...and you'll remeber why you are not together in the first place!!! What he has put you and your kids thru. That would be enough for me to let go.
Sorry, but ya need a little tough love ;)
In all seriousness, I cannot relate. For some reason, I was easilu able to let go. Different circumstances I guess. My ex has never tried to rekindle anything, (heck, he can't even be civil), so it's been easy for me to let go.
But even more seriously...look back at some of your posts.
Re: I Love Him icwtsmnl: [quote author=tatteredandtorn link=topic=37506.msg403691#msg403691 date=1163735997">
How the hell do I let go, how do I make the memories stop, how do I make my heart let go?
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[quote author=SuperChick link=topic=37506.msg404406#msg404406 date=1163797973">
(SC b*tch slaps tnt)
How? I'll tell you how... go back and read about 3/3 of your posts...and you'll remeber why you are not together in the first place!!! [/quote">
word.
[quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=37506.msg403608#msg403608 date=1163720665">
I can understand those feelings all too well. It's what kept me there waiting for over 3 years. But just like with my stbx, you also need to realize that yours is an ass. He's not going to change no matter how hard you wish for it.
One day it finally dawned on me...if he really wanted to be with me, then he would be. Nothing else to insert in that line. There are no ifs, ands, or buts about it. If it was something he truly wanted, then it would be...so I had to make that choice.
At some point you're going have to make that choice. Whether to hang on, getting hurt at every turn, waiting ever so patiently for him to magically realize what's in front of him....or to walk away with the knowledge that you did your best, gave it your best, yet you deserve better.
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another WORD.
you can't make the memories stop. but this is what i realized (original post in this following thread:
http://ojar.com/boards/index.php/topic,37031.0.html
Re: I Love Him jannette Garcia: I agree with SC and ICW! Read your posts and you'll know you HAVE to let go! The guy is a jerk! he thinks he can do whatever he wants with you! He's walking all over you and your kids and treated your daughter bad! what kind of man is that! Kick him to the curb!!! And dont look back! You can do it!
Re: I Love Him LostTeacher: i am in the total same boat girl......fighting that urge to go back to what was once there.
but what you have to see is that things are not ok....it is NOT the same as it was. whether it be what it was 5 mins ago or 5 years ago. IT IS NOT THE SAME!!!
it's what i tell myself to stop from calling/emailing/texting him.
i want my old life back. i miss the man i once was with. i wish i could wave a wand, and make it all better.
but i can't.
and it can't be the same. look at what he's done to me. look at what he's done to YOU!!!!!
how could you be with a person that does that? how can you be happy in that relationship??
one of the things i realized in this last week, is that honestly i am miserable when i am with him. for the past 3 weeks, i have been eating more, lying to my friends, depressed.....he makes me feel miserable. do i want to feel like that forever?? NO!!!!!!!
go back....read some of your posts....read some of the things you have said....and you felt those things.
whether he is the father of your kids..................he is NOT THE ONE FOR YOU!!!
LT
Re: I Love Him trapped: I hear you. An unconditional unreciprocated love. Hes everything I want. I adore everything about him. I love our history. I love that he gets me and that I get (got) him.
You say "The love of my life....". Yes. I know what you mean.
Hugs baby. Not fun.
:'(
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